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i kinda cheated but i want him back


Question Posted Saturday May 3 2008, 11:02 am

So it happened on a Sunday when my friend called me and he is in the army. i was talking to him cause me and my boyfriend were fighting. i started to talk to his roommate and he was a good talker and talked me into sending him pictures of me that werent right for me to do. my boyfriend found out and we are broken up now but i live him so much and i know i made such a huge mistake but i want to fix things with him and i want to make him happy again. We both still really love each other but he wont get back with me. how can i get him to belive me when i say im sorry and i want to make things better?

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JoeA answered Sunday May 4 2008, 11:28 pm:
There's nothing that can hurt a relationship between two people more than mistrust. He needs time to pull himself together, and then once he has, if he loves you like you say he does, he will come to you and sort things out. If he sees too much of you while he is still in pain, it will make him feel worse about you. Give him space, but don't do anything like this with anybody during that time. Stay faithful.

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tubagrl4ever answered Sunday May 4 2008, 8:59 pm:
You have to give him time to get over it. If he loves you as much as you say he does he will want to get back with you. I know this is going to sound negative but he also may not want to get back with you... especcially if you cheated on him. I hope this helps at least a little

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ChevyIINova answered Sunday May 4 2008, 5:31 pm:
You've already admitted here that you made a mistake. If you haven't already apologized to him then do so.

Other than your aploogy, admitting you were wrong and then telling him you do care for him. There's not much you really can do. The ball is in his court. He may not trust you like before so you'll have to give him some time.

I wouldn't wait forever though. There will come a point in time if he doesn't forgive you, you'll have to move on. Yes, even though you may have betrayed his trust it isn't fair to you either to be waiting on him to forgive you.

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