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how do i know if he is gay
i am a bisexual, but i know nothing about how to tell if a guy is gay/bi or not. i know that there are certain things that let you know if a guy is gay/bi or not, but i dont know them. i really need help, cause i wanna hook up with someone, and i dont know how to tell if he is gay/bi or not. how can you tell if a guy is gay/bi??
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You can't just tell that someone's gay. They have to be comfortable enough with themselves to tell you that they are gay. If they say no when you ask them out that doesn't mean they are gay. Hope this helped at least a little.
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Ask them if they have a boyfriend.
Ask them if they would like one.
Seriously, there is no way to TELL for sure. You can pick up the same kind of sutble hints that you can with a straight person that tells you they might be flirting with you, but the same way you can't really be sure if someone of the oppisite sex likes you or not until you ask them, you can't be certain if someone of the same sex likes you or not until you ask them.
One good way to find out about others is to be open about your own sexuality and discuss it camly and comfortably like it's no big deal. That allows other people around you to speak comfortably about themselves.
But there is no magic litmus test when it comes to sexuality. At some point you have got to just come out and use your words.
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