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how can i
idk. my best friende killed himself. my boyfriend and ex boyfriend almost got killed in a car accident. my dad was and could stil be a cheater. i finally found someone to love, my boyfriend. He's moving soon. far away. im all by myself. i cant take much more, i can hardly breath, theres no such thing as happiness. everytime i find it, it gets taken away. i cant do this much longer. i try so fuckin hard to get strong, i get there, then something worse happens. its not the first time, its the millionth. so much pain is in my body. ive done the pills. gone to counseling, everything the whole deal. nothing works. i cant do drugs even causeit makes me worse. im all by myself. and when my boyfriend/best friend of one year leaves me, god i dont even know what ill do...
someone help me.
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Hi,
Im in a similar situation and I understand completely how you feel. But please don't panic, it only makes things worse...trust me. Being seperated from the person you love isnt easy but it is possible to deal with. You will have your up and down days.If you and your boyfriend are truly meant to be your relationship will lst through anything, even miles in between. Try focusing on the future, make plans with him to meet and get together again. I dont know how old you are but plan on coming together permenantly. If you dont have you drivers license, focus on getting it so that you can go and see him and vice versa. Send pictures, emails, cards, letters. All these things can help. Whatever you do, DO NOT DO DRUGS...please all they do is mess you up...again trust me. Since youhave problems with loneliness try getting a pet. Whether it be a puppy or kitten or maybe even a hamster they can and will help. Find healthy ways to keep yourself busy and keep your mind off of your problems. Slowly but surely things will get better. Even though it may not seem like it now they will. To help ease the pain of your lost friend, try making a memorial. Something to help you close. As for you dad, you cant make his decisions for him. Just try to encourage him to do the right thing. Everything will be ok.
I hope this helps.
Never Give Up.
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I understand how it feels when things just keep going wrong and it feels like they'll never get better. So, I'm not going to hold anything back here. And what I say may not really comfort you now, but just listen (or read, haha).
I wish I could do something or say something to get your boyfriend to stay. I wish I could bring your best friend back. Unfortunately, I'm no miracle worker. Nobody is. Since these events can't be avoided or reversed, please try your hardest to cope with and accept them. It will help you so much on the road to recovery. You can't heal pain without accepting the events that caused such pain. Denial won't change anything.
I heard a quote once that said that if you can't change an event, change your attitude. I live by that phrase, and whoever said it was a genius.
Please try your hardest to be optimistic. I know it's hard. Believe me, this year has made me lose a lot more than I ever wanted to. But even so, I've learned that wallowing in my pain and loneliness will not bring my friends back. Hold your head up high, even though it may be difficult.
Your pain isn't in vain (and I promise, I didn't mean to make that rhyme, haha). By experiencing what you are now, you could use your wisdom to help someone in the future.
Also, I have to add that you shouldn't resort to drugs. If you do, you're only running away from everything going on, and that doesn't mean that it's going to fade away. Eventually, you could possibly deal with a drug problem AND everything you're dealing with now. Don't do it.
Please stay strong. I know you can pull through this. Happiness sometimes is hard to find in darkness, but nothing is impossible.
I'm always here for you.
-Manders
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A story im very familur with im afraid, But! Should be good news is it not? I seem to be the first; thank goodness i have this as a passion :3
Well first off. Im not going to butter this up.
You seem to want to be happy, but i hope your not like most who`m only want to find happieness in one manner.
You`ll never find happieness they way your looking
It seems soceity has rubed off on you really well
And thats bads my dear. Your going from one desire to the other. Only things will make you happy in the life you have made for yourself.
You said, I finally found someone to love me.
Now that shows me that you must`ve been looking for sometime and might`ve gotten desprite. People get desprite when they need something. But you dont need a boyfriend, what made you think you needed one?
You mention pills, You must live in a first class nation. All first class nations are very evil in a sense they hide horrible things in there food and water, but they cant hide it on the net and all someone has to do is look.
Depression, Brain fog, Psychosis, All common effects of eating processed foods, fake foods, soda`s and 6,000+ other products. All it is they say a flavor enhancer but in everywhere besides the states it has the same look as a hard to the core drug. If your diet has those^ i`d stop your you have no chance in hell of ever in your life becoming happy longer then 2hours. Facts are facts
Im glad your not taking medications for they mess up your mind really bad. No good can come of it.
If you still feel the need to indulge, indulge in herbal, go online and buy some natural stuff that wont hurt you but at the same time take away any desire to do drugs. You seem to be a smart girl, but what counts is open mindedness when it comes to happieness
Also some other notes on why one can be sad-
Addictions- (Boyfriends)not the guy himself
Lack of derection- For thousands of years people have turned to religion, most end up in wars or a we bit weird. Naturally wise people turned to
Philosophy, For unlike religion, can be changed. Philosophy only cares aboot the art of happieness and is its main goal, Nothing more, 100% happienes
I recomen the buddhist philosophy; words of buddha
Everyone who reads his words and sat with his words in mind, and the pursuit of happieness, become stress "freeer" by the day, And they all tell me this, and ive told them it when it was me.
Your a smart girl, dont let a thing like reading a small book(words of budda books are always are)
Stay drug free, INCULEDING the ones in the food(look up m-s-g) Meditate for it is science fact one is less stressed, and hence thinks clearly and are happier, hence=p better heatlh, better life wouldnt you agree?
Love your enemys and commit
P.s. try getting a hobbie for one who is "bored" has a lot of time to let greedy thoughts rule there self
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