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worrying about boyfriend....
My boyfriend asked me out about a week ago. I like him alot, especially becuase we were very good friends a long time before he asked me out. So, im really comfortable around him and trust him 100%. Well, for some odd reason i keep worrying im going to do something to cause him to stop liking me, and then breakup with me. I have no idea why this is bothering me so much...after every time i talk to him ill think to myself, did i say something wrong? sometimes ill even think things like, im not good enough, how could he ever like me. Does anyone have any advice for this, because its really starting to make me sad =/
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YOUR FIRST SENTENCE...
My boyfriend asked me out about a week ago.
HOW ARE YOU NOT GOOD ENOUGH, HE ASKED YOU OUT!!!
YOUR THE BEST RIGHT NOW IN HIS EYES...
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stop worrying! he is with you because he likes you! You guys have been friends before you guys started dating, so nothing you say or how you act wouldn't really differ. It sounds cheesy but just be yourself, because you both known eachother well. He is with you because he accepts who you are and enjoys your company. Don't worry! Just relax! Good luck
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Your boyfriend is with you because he likes you. If you two were friends before hand, then he already feels something for you that appears to me, you don't see yourself.
If you continue to question your relationship-- then there's a chance that he'll start to as well.
Remember, that he has already evaluated you, and decided that you're the girl he wants to be with. If those feelings change, then there's nothing you can do about it. But don't bring yourself down until or if that comes to happen.
Keep your chin high, and know that he's with you because he WANTS to be.
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You shouldn't have to worry about this. He chose you. Which means he likes you a whole lot. If anything were to bother him...about what you said or what you did..he would tell you. Because that's what a relationship is all about; communication. Never think you're not good enough. Because if you weren't, he would've chosen someone else. This feeling of low self worth in relationships, I found out, only occurs for the first couple of weeks. So quit stressing and enjoy your relationship, girl :)
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