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ok so this one guy who stoped talking to me for like 2 months, started talking to me again. and he wants to chill this summer.
he told me that he still likes me more than a friend and all that, but the thing is, he still has a girlfriend.
he said he would never cheat--but i think if i made a move on him, he wouldnt make me stop.
i kind of want to tease him some, so should i be all flirty and like kiss him just to see what happens? thanks!
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No, you shouldn't. Flirting and kissing a guy who has a girlfriend is simply not a nice thing to do.
Nothing you can say can make that behavoir kind or right. It doesn't matter if his girlfriend is a raving lunatic, until he breaks up with her you need to respect the fact that he is taken.
Besides, a guy who cheat on his girlfriend, will cheat on you eventually as well.
Don't loose your self-respect, and the respect of your peers, by fooling around with this guy. He isn't worth it. No one is.
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okay, typical boy - number one.
if he likes you as more than a friend, than why is he still with his girlfriend? & why wouldn't he cheat? it seems to me that if a guy likes a girl, yet is dating another girl he would do something to get the girl to break up with him (i.e. cheating) therefore his logics just aren't matching up.
aaaand, you're right, if you were to put a move on him, he wouldn't stop you. but that doesn't mean you need to do so. he wouldn't stop you mainly because you're a girl, making a move on him. no guy would stop that from happening.
be friends with him all you want, but don't get attached. if he really liked you, then you wouldn't even have to be asking me this question, because he wouldn't have a girlfriend.
i don't think you should waste your time on someone who has a girlfriend. he really isn't worth it.
to be as honest as possible, i think he's just using you. he wants someone to be there once him & his girlfriend do break up (if they do) & he thinks you would be the type of person to wait for that. but i think you are better than that :)
good luck.
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ok i dont think you should be flirty and you know all that stuff. i wouldnt like it if a girl was flirting with my boyfriend. just wait until they break up or something. and obviously this guy isnt the best cause if he has a girlfriend and he also likes you then he probably cheats. you dont want to get into any trouble with his girlfriend! hope i helped. ill always be open to answer any questions.
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NOO ok DONT DO THAT. think about if you were in that position?? how would you feel if some girl was teasing your boyfriend and trying to get him to cheat on you?? guys are easliy confused so dont try and get him to do something he TOLD you he doesnt want to do. that is soo mean. and he may stop liking you if he thinks your some tramp that flirts with guys and stuff. but you can ask him why hes with his gf if he likes you. and if he likes another girl while dating you then i wouldnt advise dating him. if he can do that to one girl he can do it when hes dating you. trust me thats exactly what happened to me. be smart and dont tease him unless he dumps his gf. and think of how hurt you would be if some girl kissed him while YOU were dating him. dont make his gf go through that pain she hasnt done anything to you except date some guy that obviously isnt faithful to her. to sum it up-DONT TEASE HIM thats really, really mean and i dont think you want to be the cause of pain i know his gf will deal with and eventually he will look back and regret it and you dont want him to regret something he did with you, right? just wait until hes single or leave him cause he doesnt sound worth it to me
hope i helped ;]
xo Mariko xo
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girl i was in this samn position.YES tease him. guys lie all the time. if they could have there ice cream and cake they will eat it to. deep down he is a cheater if he is tryna holla at you and i think his girl should know. he wanna play with your head play with his. when u kiss him suck on his bottom lip this will have him in a trance trust me. when he try and touch let him but dont let him go to far. play him a game boy girl show him u on to his game.
hope i helped
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