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Hi...I'm Mariko or Haley or Marbs [lol]
I'm here to give advice so just ask. I can help you with almost any topic. I have been through a lot so i have a good amount of experience to use too lol.
A little about me: I'm outgoing, smart, friendly, a Christian, crazy, and a little impulsive. I believe in living life for the moment. Boys are stupid but fun just don't give them your heart cause they will break it :( Wait for your perfect guy--the guy that will do anything for you and the guy that thinks your his Everything. don't put up with stupid guys and there crap--you deserve BETTER. Just WaIt

Live
Laugh
Love

Friends are amazing...
Don't take your family for granted...
Boys are for fun not forever...
Live life to the FULLEST...
You only get 1 chance...
And its better to do something and be embarrassed for a moment than to not do it and forever regret it

advice

I'm 17/f and on a club team for volleyball. One of the teams we always play there is this girl, and she's 18. When we first played I thought she was an amazing volleyball player and gorgeous too, I passed that off as admiration. Afterwards she came over and we talked, and then almost naturally we started flirting with each other. Now I'm not gay or bi, I LOVE guys, but she was just really attractive. She was the kind of girl that guys drool over at school, but the one that wasn't afraid to knock a guy out. Every tournament it's like I can't focus on a game if she watches, when my teams play against hers we both always try to impress the other. I don't know what's going on and it's scaring me. What does this make me? Gay? Bi? Is this bad?

Thanks to any who answers

okay here's the bottom line:
do you find yourself fantazizing about her???
do you get turned on when she walks by???
do you look at her boobs or butt with lust???
do you want to do hott naughty things with her???

if the answer to these questions is YES than your are possibly bi or gay. girls quite often question their sexuality. just wait and see if it goes away or if you are finding that you like and flirt and think about girls more and more often. dont worry about it too much tho cause sometimes people are just having some fun.
hope i helped ;]
xo Mariko xo

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ok so this one guy who stoped talking to me for like 2 months, started talking to me again. and he wants to chill this summer.

he told me that he still likes me more than a friend and all that, but the thing is, he still has a girlfriend.

he said he would never cheat--but i think if i made a move on him, he wouldnt make me stop.

i kind of want to tease him some, so should i be all flirty and like kiss him just to see what happens? thanks!

NOO ok DONT DO THAT. think about if you were in that position?? how would you feel if some girl was teasing your boyfriend and trying to get him to cheat on you?? guys are easliy confused so dont try and get him to do something he TOLD you he doesnt want to do. that is soo mean. and he may stop liking you if he thinks your some tramp that flirts with guys and stuff. but you can ask him why hes with his gf if he likes you. and if he likes another girl while dating you then i wouldnt advise dating him. if he can do that to one girl he can do it when hes dating you. trust me thats exactly what happened to me. be smart and dont tease him unless he dumps his gf. and think of how hurt you would be if some girl kissed him while YOU were dating him. dont make his gf go through that pain she hasnt done anything to you except date some guy that obviously isnt faithful to her. to sum it up-DONT TEASE HIM thats really, really mean and i dont think you want to be the cause of pain i know his gf will deal with and eventually he will look back and regret it and you dont want him to regret something he did with you, right? just wait until hes single or leave him cause he doesnt sound worth it to me
hope i helped ;]
xo Mariko xo

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13/f! Ok so this boy I like always texts me. When texting he brings up sex. I play along just to see what he'd do. To make him aware that Im kidding I text haha, he on the other hand doesnt. "He says like I work from _to_ I can come over at 6". I told him that my friend is asking me if I am gonna do it or not and he says "o yea your doing it." joking around i textd him & "said oh no its past 6, are you coming?" he replies back "i have to shower...we could do it in the shower, but what's the plan on protection?" I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO! He jokes about alot of things thats something you have to know about him, but is he joking now? I am questioning it because I asked him out before & he said no, so please help! Do you think he is jokin? THANKS!

boys are perverts thats just how they are lol. im sure hes just kidding. why dont you just ask him once? be like "how come you always bring up sex and stuff when we txt? haha" dont make him think your calling him weird but ya you might want to kno why he does that.
hope i helped ;]
xo Mariko xo

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I'm confused. how come the firefighters didnt just put trampolines to catch the jumpers so they didnt all have to die? i know they werent prepared but after seeing dozens of people jump why didnt they? i cant imagine it.. i mean falling thousands of feet going at 150 mph.. which takes like 10 seconds from a high floor. and i hear that some people got killed from being hit by these jumpers.. can someone just explain to me how it was like and why they died when they hit the floor? and did their bodies totally break apart or pretty much stay intact? and what do you think was going through their minds as they were about to hit the ground or were about to jump? oh and why werent there hellicopters there to rescue people? i saw a vid on youtube where 2 people landed and it was a terrible racket.. its just the weirdest thought ever. please help.. and i hope this doesnt seem rude or anything. im 14 so when this happened i was only in first grade. then i thought it was funny, the thought of jumpers cause i couldnt imagine that at all. i didnt know they were actually dying and stuff.. and couldnt imagine how that could happen. thanks for the help btw. geez looking up all this 9/11 stuff now that i didnt know about sure is depressing.

ok think about what your saying...if someone is falling at that speed and from that height even landing on a trampoline would kill them. and the firefighters didn't know this was happening!! duh it happened waay to fast for them to do anything. And why werent there helicoptors? BECAUSE NO ONE KNEW IT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN. omg you need to at least know SOMETHING about the topic before you ask a question. im sorry but you sound ignorant. this was a horrible and terrible thing that happened to America and you know nothing about it. This is SAD!!! This is your country! This started the WAR we are in! please go pay attention at school or go to Google for goodness skaes! and im 14 too and i was in seocnd grade soo ya check your dates...
and ya not trying to be mean but i am completely shocked and annoyed at the fact that you know nothing about 9/11 but i did what to help you and clear some things up lol :]
xo Mariko xo

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