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Volleyball Girl Problem
I'm 17/f and on a club team for volleyball. One of the teams we always play there is this girl, and she's 18. When we first played I thought she was an amazing volleyball player and gorgeous too, I passed that off as admiration. Afterwards she came over and we talked, and then almost naturally we started flirting with each other. Now I'm not gay or bi, I LOVE guys, but she was just really attractive. She was the kind of girl that guys drool over at school, but the one that wasn't afraid to knock a guy out. Every tournament it's like I can't focus on a game if she watches, when my teams play against hers we both always try to impress the other. I don't know what's going on and it's scaring me. What does this make me? Gay? Bi? Is this bad?
Thanks to any who answers
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
okay here's the bottom line:
do you find yourself fantazizing about her???
do you get turned on when she walks by???
do you look at her boobs or butt with lust???
do you want to do hott naughty things with her???
if the answer to these questions is YES than your are possibly bi or gay. girls quite often question their sexuality. just wait and see if it goes away or if you are finding that you like and flirt and think about girls more and more often. dont worry about it too much tho cause sometimes people are just having some fun.
hope i helped ;]
xo Mariko xo
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i dont think you are bi hun i just think you like her. now if u want to have sex with her and roll around in a field of flowers then you could be bi-curious meaning you just wanna know what will happen if you did. now if u do then your bi sweety. now its okay you admire her and it seem to me like yall can be good friends or a good couple so do whats your heart wants of you.
hope i helped
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It depends on what you're feelings are exactly for her. If you feel a strong attraction to her, that can be normal. Guys are attracted to their favorite sports stars. Watch how we flock around them, put posters of them on our walls, pay huge amounts of money to watch them perform. However, we don't maintain sexual fantasies about them, or even a desire to partake in any sexual act about them, so most of us aren't gay. You can be attracted to someone in a non-sexual way. Basically, if you don't have any desire to do anything physically with her, no you are not gay. If you are having urges to get physical with this girl, then yes you are bisexual.
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