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Age: 19
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First off sorry if this question is in the worng category
Ok so I think my friend has some type of eating disorder. And i'm really worried. Like a year ago my friends and I noticed that she was too thin and that her clothes weren't fitting her and stuff so we confronted her and she's like yeah i know i have a problem i'm seeing someone about it. And she started getting better.
A few months ago, her father died of cancer. And even before then she started getting skinnier again. She's thinner then sghe was before. she looks like skin and bones. And i know for a fact that her mom is too preoccupied trying to take care of her and her brother by herself to see anything.
What do I do? I don't want her to get mad... all I want is for her to be better again (link)
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It sounds like you really care about your friend. If your friend has an eating disorder she is going to need help cause she will continue to get more sick. Eating disorders aren't something to mess with. If you really care about your friend you will talk to her about it and tell her mom even if her mom is busy. I know you are worried about your friend getting mad at you but you are helping her and that's a good thing. That's what a friends do.
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There are some girls in school that always bully me and I take and forget it like always but this time they've gone to far. They told me that if I didn't go with them to their house they'll do something really bad to my family and I beleived them so I called my mom on the phone and told her I was going to sleepover some friends house. Then I went with the girls and they had told me that if I didn't do what they say I would get beaten up. So when we got to their house There was this teenage guy on the door eyeing me everywhere and that gave me the creeps. When we got to the door he put his arm around my waist and told me we were going to have fun that night. The girls sent me to a room and demanded for me to put on the clothes on the bed. I refused (it was like a bikini thing) so one of the girl's slapped me and told me it was either that or naked. I changed and was ordered to go to a room and lay on the bed and wait. A while later the boy I had seen earlier he told me "Looking nice and that's the way I like it" I was so scared to answer so I just shut my mouth. The boy than came over and touched me everywhere and then suddenly stopped and he told me what he was doing was wrong but than again he came down on me again and kissed me and this time he got something that I think was a condum and sarted to undress himself and once again he stopped and said he shouln't be doing this but that my body urged him to and again he got on top of me and he forced something into my mouth and I dozed of. The next morning I woke up with his arm on my bra and the fingers of his other hand on my( you know). I tried to get up but found out I was tied and there was tape around my legs so I fell and my ankle twisted and I yelped and my stupid self woke the guy up. He told me that if I wanted to go I had to suck his private part but I refused so he pushed to the bed and started hitting me and when he was done he told me "that he was gonna do something weather I like it or not. He tied me good this time so that I couldn't move. He revealed my breast and poured milk on them and started sucking on them so hard it hurted me. He went licking down my body until he got to between my legs there he started licking everywhere and then put he's finger in there and pushed really hard until I let out a painful scream. He than said " u feel the pain well that's what you get". He holded my head got on top of me and put his private in my mouth and made me do it. Then he suddenly stopped and said that he'll be watching me at school and told me he knew about my grandma (she has cancer) and he could pay me $200 a week to do this just one day week. I really love my grandma so I decide to do this but I want to make sure this is the right thing to do and he also pays me $20 dollars just he can touch and feel me. He pays me $5 to kiss me and $10 to pose naked for him. $50 to shower with him. I would win good money with this but it just doesn't feel right sometimes he brings friends over, old men touch and even sleep with me and sometimes they even poor beer all over me and 3 at a time lick and suck on my skin and sometimes even bite me. it's been going on for days now and I want to stop but I care about my grandma also the girls say they'll kill me if I sop and I really beleived them because they once killed a because he was such a nerd but that was in another state. Anyways I'm really scared I don't know how to quit and worst how do I tell my family I feel like a prostitude ...just a girl who sold herself...I mean it was my fault inthe first place I should of been better getting beaten to death than to just sell my self to a boy I don't even know....I know I can trust on who ever gives me advice I had the guts to tell you this because none of you know me in person I just wish I had the guts to do what I need ti do.......I hope you can help me..... (link)
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First thing you need to do is tell someone that cares and loves you. This is wrong of this person they don't care how it makes you feel or how it is hurting you. Even though this person gives you money for doing certain things for him it's not worth it. How do you think it would make your grandma feel? I don't think she would want you to go through this abuse. I know that in that heart of yours you know what the right thing to do is. You need to tell your family its the right thing to do reguard less of what this people do cause it sounds like it is eating you up inside. You will do what is right.
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