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I have class with this boy, we'll call him bob. So bob is a year younger then me and asked me to prom two months before prom was scheduled and we talked and stuff, but we weren't acquaintences or anything, but I said no to him for prom, cause i didn't want to go with him and made some excuse. Well, at prom I saw him there while my date wanted to sit down and take a break, so Bob asked me to dance and i did for a couple of minutes and then broke free cause I didn't want to dance with him. Yesterday Bob asked me if I wanted to hang out and I said no because I wasn't going to be in that area. Then he asks me when I will be free to hang out (through a text) but I haven't responded yet, but he's not getting the message that I don't want to hang out with him. I don't know how to handle this situation and at prom I only danced with him cause I felt bad for him that I rejected him and went with someone else. The school i go to is pretty small and everyone knows everyone, but I want to get this guy off my back. Any advice? Thanks (sorry for the length) (link)
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I know exactly what you mean!
Okay, the first thing you do is be totally distant when he talks to you.
Only say phrases like "K" and "uh huh" and "yeah"
Dont smile
Dont laugh
He will sooner or later lose interest
i know this isnt the mature way to handle things but trust me- it works like a charm!
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My ex bf sent me a text telling me he "broke away" from this girl he liked even though they weren't officially dating- and he was all proud of it and sayin' how much he hated her... and honestly I don't really care what he does. I don't want anything to do with him anymore because he was a jerk to me. Do you think since he's moved on from this other poor girl, he's gonna move onto me? because he's talking to me a lot again, and I really don't want to deal with him again. What do I do? (link)
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Tell him how you feel about him talking to you again and how much it hurts you&& it probably brings back memories you do not wish to remember. I know the feeling, trust me, of being taken advantage of after your ex breaks up with you. You feel totally used, and hurt am i right?
So just tell him to leave you alone politeley, and that you want to move on with your life too.
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Okay, I have a HUGE history of social anxiety disorders in my family so none of us are 'people people'. Ya know? My bestfriend of six years just moved to Baltimore. My second bestfriend of three years is moving to Texas. Now, my nearly best guyfriend [of whom im madly in like with, btw] is moving across the state!!! AND he's the only reason that I wouldn't mind failing the ninth grade, just to have a class with him. Any advice? Comfort? Thoughts? I'm miserable here. (link)
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Hey :]
first of all relax
there are plenty of other people you can become close with
im gunna make you a list to do
-tell the guy how you feel
-be nice to everyone [even the ones u hate]
-try as hard as you can to make friends and if they dont like you, move on!
-keep in touch with your old friends ... just because they are moving away doesnt mean they're gone for good
good luck and im so sorry you have to go through this buddy
i give you my sympathy
do something fun for yourself
and have a good time
live.laugh.and love
live by those words and all will be good
if people dont give you the same respect back, they are really missing out of something special
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