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Love confused
Alright so here's the deal I'm female and 20 years old,
I was with this guy lets say "X" for secrecy. Five months, I really felt a connection with him so deep that when I fell or hurt myself he'd be like ohh my hand hurt today and i don't know why... But things started to get hard and we argued a LOT and broke up. The night we broke up he was IMing my best friend and they had umm phone sex? I found out the next day and was so hurt, that I went straight to this guy who I had been flirting with while i was with "X" we'll call him "Y". So me and "Y" we have EVERYTHING in common from music to food to movies etc etc etc we haven't found anything that we don't both like. He told me he loved me and wanted to be with me and I told him I loved him... but today I just feel confused am I doing the right thing? Who should I choose X or Y???? I have no idea. Has anyone else ever been in this situation?
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I have not been in this situation but you just need to look at who makes you happier.
If I had to choose I would probably give up on "x" because it seems like he has given up on you. In the end it is you and your heart that has to make the choice.
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You need to make this decision alone. Try grabbing a piece of paper-- and putting X on one side and Y on the other. Start by writing what you like most about them. Then, make one about what you dislike about them. This may or may not determine the best guy for you-- but it'll help clear your thoughts.
But, just a little advice-- any guy who's going to have phone OR ANY sex with your friend, is not worth your attention.
Hope I helped!
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Nobody else can make this choice for you. Try to imagine yourself in the future and see who you'd be happiest with. Although, keep in mind that "Y" is availible and "X" is having phone sex with your best friend.
For the record, you're not really 20 years old, are you?
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