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what do i tell him or what should i do?? is he controlive??
I've been with me boyfriend for 2 years now and i love him a lot..He has such a hold on my heart and he just doesint know how bad i love him..instead of believing i love him he tells me i dont and gives me so many examples of why i dont..it just hurts when you know you love someone and they just deny your love...ANy way i wanted to know how i should i handle my boyfriends controliveness..he gets mad when i get dresses for school and say that i dont get dreesed for him the reason why i dont get dresses for him is beacuse when i do he says smart things like what! you wear them tight jeans to school or yea you like wearing that tight top to school huh? so i stopped getin dresses for him to prevent his comments..so now he gets mad when i dress for school...what do i do what should i say to him???
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I know you love him and this might be hard to hear, but he might have a problem that needs attention. My bestfriend is in this type of relationship and I don't see it getting better unless he gets help.
The problem is, is that it will be extremely hard for him to understand it. If this is a huge issue for you, you have to think very hard about what to do.
You could talk to him to try to convince him to seek help, you could have a deep conversation with him and hope it clicks for him, or you could dump him and see if that makes him change. Any way you look at it, it will be difficult.
I am sorry if I didn't help you but that is the way I see it and it is not a cut and dry solution.
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girl i know it feels right to be with him, but eventually he really is going to hurt you. i used to be in a similar relationship, where he was so controlling. it ended horribly when i found out he was talking to one of my best friends. anyway, i'm not saying that your boyfriend would ever do that.. but you just have to watch your back. i know things just feel so right when you are with him and you almost can't imagine not being with him, but obviously this makes you unhappy and you obviously hate it. if you try talking to him about it, he will probably just get upset.. but it might be worth a try. if you want to wear dresses to school, then just tell him you felt like dressing up that day. who cares. he shouldn't be getting mad over that.
good luck, :)
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he sounds like an asshole...
and you sound like you should be treated better
tell him why you dont get dressed up for him.
..doesnt sound like he will care anways.
ps.your in an abusive relationship...
not physical but emotional....
and the advice im giving you is:
leave him. you could do better.
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