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strange boyfriend. :(
hey
well the guy ive been going out with for a week .. he says he really likes me but he doesnt make an effort. before when we werent going out like 2 months ago we hooked up and afterwards he called me alot and replied to my messages and came to see me and had time for me, then when we started going out he just never called me .. he would promise he would call and then he wont. and he never replied to my messages, and he never has time for me. hes always with his friends. i would be like Hey come visit me when i finish work and he would come during work and be like Yeah i wont be able to see you because im going out with mates etc. i got so sick of it and yesterday i told him and im like I cant go out with someone that i only see once a week and he was like Im really sorry i didnt realise i was confused because it was straight after a relationship but now im ready i luv you i just dont want to lose you and im like Okay ill give you one more chance etc.
so today i saw him and hes like Ive started to reply to your messages more have you realised and im like Yeah youre making an effort aye. ok so 10 mins later hes like Yeah im just going with my friend to the shops quickly to get something ill be back. so he comes back in 5 minutes and then he goes for a smoke with his friends, and then comes back and im like to my friend I bet he has to go somewhere now. and guess what? he comes back and hes like I have to go blah blah and im like Yeah i knew it.
im really confused because i dunno what the hell is wrong with him if he wants a relationship with me WHY CANT HE JUST DO IT?
please help i dunno what to do :(
thankss
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try talking to him about it. straight up tell him "i want you to give us more time" or "i want you to give me more attention". as a girlfriend, you deserve a good amount of attention from your boyfriend.. i mean you guys are dating. plus you should be totally open with him, and let him know when something is bothering you- especially do this extent. he might feel that before you were dating, he didn't "have" you like he does now, so he felt he had to work for you and keep you there.. but now that you're actually dating, he might feel like he doesn't have to work at it. you should play hard to get and make him work around your schedule and your time.. not the other way around and he'll get a taste of his own medicine. if he doesn't get the message, i don't think he is worth your time.. sorry girl.
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Well, a relationship takes two, and at the moment, its just you, he's not present. It seems like your egging him on and nagging him to spend time with you, which isn't you're role in the relationship. He obviously doesn't understand that to be in a relationship you make a commitment, and he's not committed to you at the moment. Break up with him. He isn't worth your time if he takes you for granted.
~Maria, 17
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