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should i break up with my boyfriend
Posted Monday May 19 2008, 12:18 pm
okay so i have been going out with a guy for about 2 months and i really really like him but these past few days he has been getting mad at me for the weirdest things like i got my phone taken away and he got mad at me and called me stupid and when i talk to him on the phone he starts yelling at me and calling me lazy and stupid
should i put up with that or should i break up with him?
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what do i get my boyfriend for his birthday?
Posted Monday May 19 2008, 12:01 pm
what do i get my boyfriend for his birthday.we have been dating for about 4 months now.i dont have alot of money to spend on the gift either.anyone can ansewer.i think it would be cool to get a guys ansewer on this.
15/f
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why is my life going to hell
Posted Monday May 19 2008, 1:28 am
nothing has gone right since dec of 07... i broke up with my bf for my ex who ended up hurting me more than he had in the beginning. i got back with the bf i broke up with jason and it was all good. then he left to iowa and then to basic. he got home from basic and all we did was fight he headed back to iowa for a while well the other day we got into a huge fight and broke up. i havent stopped thinkin of him and today he sent me a text saying sorry so i apologized back then he was like no im sorry i found a girl that i kinda like she is really cool. now there is nothign i can do about it... i love him so much and tried to tell him how this made me feel...but tears just fell too heavily and i just hung up. wat do i do
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boyfriend not circumsized
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 11:28 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and I love him to death, but when it comes to the bedroom, I don't know what to do. Basically, he isn't circumsized, and all the other guys I've dated are circumsized.
I don't want to sound mean, but I am completely unattracted to his penis. When we do sexual things together, I don't even like to look at it. I feel horrible when I say that, but it's true!
I've looked into getting him circumsized and the procedure is simple. Many men who have gone through the procedure left comments saying that they're glad they got it done.
What do you think I should do? Persuade him into getting it circumsized..? I am clueless. :(
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ahh help
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 10:13 pm
sooo how do i get over my ex that i love and went out for 2 years but she stopped loving me and she wants to be friends but i can't do it idk ii am going crazy i miss her all the time and can't stop thinkinh about her idk i am going to flip- out and everyone wants her too
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Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 9:34 pm
i am so mad at my ex because he did so much crap to me and he was my very best friend. when we broke up i lost a part of myself. im leaving soon so i wont see him again at least until i visit in a few months and he wont talk to me. hes avoiding me because he doesnt want to deal with the emotions he has. i just want to talk about a couple things and get closure but he wont. he refuses. i have tried many times. i cannot let go of my anger and sadness and its making me depressed literally. i never feel just happy now and i hate it. i am a different person and the person i was before left with his and i's relationship. once i move i will become another person but right now all i am is depressed. how can i let go of the anger i have and move on?...
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Boy..
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 9:15 pm
there's a guy i like. we dated in 8th grade and we were each others first real relationship. Ever since then i've had feelings for him (11th grade now, i know, pathetic) we've talked on the phone every couple of weeks since then. He's had girlfriends and i've had boyfriends. The thing is, now that we are both single i really would like to pursue a relationship with him seeing as he's the person i care most about. However, he doesn't think having a girlfriend at this age is even worth it since he's been dumped everytime he's gone out with someone. (but he's a REALLY good boyfriend) I want him to consider going back out with me and i asked him out in 9th grade again & he said no. I asked him why and he said he doesnt think going out ...
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my ex
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 8:42 pm
I am still contantly thinking about him.
I was for sure in love with him and he told me he loved me.
I cant stop thinking about him.
The other day was my birthday, and he sent me a text telling me happy birthday, and I replying saying thanks.
& he sent back, im sorry for the way everything happened, and I wanted to let you know that im still a friend if that is okay with you.
I wrote back that that is fine and if he ever needs someone to talk to im here.
But you see, ever since we broke up, he hasnt said a word to me. Nothing.
It kills me that he wont talk to me, and I dont want to make the first move and talk to him, since he already has a g/f. ( his gf is one of my frien...
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so many problems with my boyfriend
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 8:10 pm
i have a ton of problems with my boyfriend. i want to fix them so badley, because i love him so much, but i really just dont know what to do. i guess ill just list the problems...and go from there..
1. jelousy. alot of girls like him and talk to him and all that stuff, and when hes just talking to them to be friendly, i cant help but feel like he likes them, or is starting to like them. or he could be cheating on me with them or something like that. he promises to me that he dosent like them, and that he would never cheat on me.
2. i feel like he still likes his ex girlfriends. just the way that he acts around them, and the fact that he makes fun of them, makes me feel like hes trying to hide the fact that he s...
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is this weird?
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 7:57 pm
16/f
is it weird that i like like 20394823 guys? and i dont mean just a little crush. i have like a thing for a bunch of guys. and im not a whore. i dont like hook up with all of them or anything.. even though a lot of them like me back. i dont want to lead any of them on or anything. i just want to know what i should do. i think its because i see them all in different situations/environments. like they go to like 4 of 5 different schools. some are from my youth group. i dont know.. its like i like them when i hang out with them. but then i change my mind. theres like one guy that i ALWAYS like when i hang out with him though. i actually did hook up with this one but i decided that he was a bad choice because he liked me but he like ...
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love/friendship
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 7:53 pm
16/f
okay so i have this friend.. and she's my best friend. but like she likes like 2235235 guys at once. and its totally unfair because that means that i like am not allowed to like any of them. and the guy that she hooked up with for the first time ever is really cute and like im really good friends with him too. i think he might be starting to like me because he was really nice to me yesterday and he was flirting a lot. it was raining and he like gave me his hat so my hair wouldnt get messed up (because i had straightened it) and he asked me if i wanted him to take off his shirt and give it to me because i looked cold. and everytime we got out of the car he like grabbed my hand to help me out. and there were like 10 other girls th...
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Said things in anger
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 7:21 pm
I'm 18 and my bf is 19 we've dated off and on for 2 years.
Today we got in a huge fight and I said somethings I didnt mean. We had just got back from a weekend vacation and he was looking for his cds that I had put in the trunk. the trunk was packed with stuff and his cds were buried. he started digging around and I wanted him to take out my suitcase so we could find it. I guess I was yelling at him and he got angry and threw my suitcase out on the ground. I lost it. I was so mad. then I asked him "So are you going to act like this from now on" and he said yes so I said "well maybe we shouldnt be in a relationship then"
I regretted it as soon as I said it. I really didnt mean it. I was jus...
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In love with what I can't have..
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 5:21 pm
I started dating a guy and I really really liked him. He was the first guy I had ever hooked up with without being in a relationship.
The only thing was-- he was on a break with his girlfriend of four years. The reason for their break was he wasn't ready to be married, and she was.
I had never felt so close to a person before, and we knew that we were falling in love, but that it was a really difficult situation because he had this good girl who did nothing wrong but want to be with him.. and a new girl who he was starting to fall for.
Well, I lost in the end. And not only did I lose a guy that I loved, I also lost a friend. It's been months, and God knows I've tried. But I miss him so much.
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love advice
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 5:05 pm
i know theres so many questions on here asking for help with love and there are more importtant problems out there. i wouldnt be asking this except its really interfering with my life. my sleep, the way im thinking, my friends, everything. im sorry this is so long.
if i seem noncholant about anything dont take it that way. ive just been thinking about things a lot and ive come to accept most of it.
im 14. hes 14 too.
so heres the story. 6th grade he asks me out in april, i didnt really know him or like him that much but he was cute and it was 6th grade so i said yes. we got along and talked a lot and got to know eachother a little bit. in may he told me he loved me, i said thanks. he went to cam...
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What is the best advice..
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 3:43 pm
What is the best advice anyone has ever given you in life? (mantras are great)
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Is this a real reason or just an excuse BEEN WITH HIM FOR 3
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 2:45 pm
My boyfriend has cheated on me 3 times...he says that the reason for what he has done is because of me...keep in mind i never have cheated on him..
HIS REASON FOR CHEATING ON ME HE SAYS IS BECAUSE OF THE THINGS I DO TO HIM..WHICH IS WHEN WE ARGUE AND HE DOESINT LET ME TALK AT ALL I HANG UP ON HIM AND WHEN HE CALLS ME OUT OF MY NAME I HANG UP ON HIM AND DONT ANSWER HIS CALLS..ALSO WHEN I GO OUT WITH MY FRIENDS OR ANYTHING HE IS SO INSECURE THAT HE CALLS ME EVERY TIME I GO OUT AND STAYS ON THE PHONE WITH ME...WHILE HES STAYING ON THE PHONE WITH ME HE STRARTS QUESTIONING ME AND STARTS ACTING VERY INSECURE HE STARTS NAGGING ME NAGGING ME OVER THE PHONE...WHILE IM WITH MY FRIENDS...HE SAYS THINGS LIKE YEA LET ME CALL YOU LATER GO BE WITH ...
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HIS BIRTHDAY
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 11:42 am
me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year almost. he will be turning 16 in less then a month and i have no idea what to get him, for my birthday he went over the top. i have 400 dollars so price doesnt matter. hes not into sports, he likes video games but on christmas he said he wouldnt want a game from his girlfriend. i already bought him a chain. i hate gift cards i think that they dont show you care. so basically what can be a big over the top gift to buy for him and to show him that i love him?
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boys
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 3:17 am
When I start to like a guy, I fall really fast and becoming to obsessive in my own mind. I constantly think about whoever it is at the time and I'll start to want to talk to him 24/7. Of course then I get bored quickly and move on to being obsessed with another guy.
How do I stop this annoying cycle so I can just be more chill with guys?
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Unsettling Dreams?
Posted Sunday May 18 2008, 2:35 am
Strange Dreams have haunted my life as of late, and they are really ruining the way I look at my boyfriend. Anyway, a little about myself, I'm 16, had one boyfriend before this, nieve, clueless, and totally insecure, etc etc. ANYway, he is totally awesome, cute, and his totally weird personality fits almost perfectly with mine, which is also weird. He is the first boy I really kissed (yes I never kissed my ex...twas lame)All of it is so new to me and I'm scared, hence the unsettling dreams. The first dream I had is really embarrasing to tell...But here it is. I was at his house, we were older, he was a millionaire, and his house was stuffy and felt weird. I told him I wanted to take a shower, he was kind and got it ready for me then left. I...
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If she doesn’t like me, why is she so "close" to me?
Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 11:22 pm
Last year I discuss my best friend that I am bi sexual and that I have a crush on her. She is fine with it but she doesn’t like me in that way. Because she is unsure of her sexuality and not ready for a relationship (she is still unsure). After the talk we had she and I are still close friends and there were times she will seemed she is flirts or teasing me but I cant tell if it means she fancy me. She leans on me, touch me and close to me. Yesterday she and I and couple of our friends were in my room watching TV. I was on the left side of my bed and she the right. I lay in my head in the middle of the bed as she too. We ended up our heads touching together. I just don’t get why she is so touchy feely to me when she isn’t attracted to me.
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