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is this weird?
16/f
is it weird that i like like 20394823 guys? and i dont mean just a little crush. i have like a thing for a bunch of guys. and im not a whore. i dont like hook up with all of them or anything.. even though a lot of them like me back. i dont want to lead any of them on or anything. i just want to know what i should do. i think its because i see them all in different situations/environments. like they go to like 4 of 5 different schools. some are from my youth group. i dont know.. its like i like them when i hang out with them. but then i change my mind. theres like one guy that i ALWAYS like when i hang out with him though. i actually did hook up with this one but i decided that he was a bad choice because he liked me but he like is physically incapable of having a relationship.
what should i do? is it okay that i like so many guys? im only sixteen..
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You're human. At the basic nature, we are always going to like so many people. It's basic attraction. Acting on every single one of them would be a problem.
Just accept that you surround yourself with likeable people, and one day, you'll find the one you like more than any of them.
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I didn't read anywhere here that they are necessarily love interests. Many people prefer the company of the opposite sex, I know I do, but not for sexual reasons. Women are normally much more fun to talk to then men, they have a wider range of topics of conversation then most men, (in general). My impression here is that you prefer to be around guys. Male, female friendships are quite different from same sex friendships and they are often more comfortable and less stressful. The darker side of it is, guys pay more attention to you then girls do and attention is what most younger people want and often older folks as well. So you take your pick, are you an "attention whore", or do you just prefer the company of men? Be honest with yourself, it's the only way we get to know ourselves, you don't have to tell anybody.
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Having many love interests at 16 is not a bad thing.. and it doesn't make you a whore.
This only tells me that you're more selective about having an actual "boyfriend". Don't demean yourself or disrespect your body, and there's nothing at all to worry about. You've stated that you don't randomly hook up, which doesn't make you anything close to whorish.
You're young, and I say.. why not? If you're going to get into a relationship, have choice and options so that you don't have to deal with bad fights and difficult break ups.
You're doing nothing wrong so long as you have morals and mannerisms-- which it seems to me that you do.
Good luck!
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