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Unsettling Dreams?
Strange Dreams have haunted my life as of late, and they are really ruining the way I look at my boyfriend. Anyway, a little about myself, I'm 16, had one boyfriend before this, nieve, clueless, and totally insecure, etc etc. ANYway, he is totally awesome, cute, and his totally weird personality fits almost perfectly with mine, which is also weird. He is the first boy I really kissed (yes I never kissed my ex...twas lame)All of it is so new to me and I'm scared, hence the unsettling dreams. The first dream I had is really embarrasing to tell...But here it is. I was at his house, we were older, he was a millionaire, and his house was stuffy and felt weird. I told him I wanted to take a shower, he was kind and got it ready for me then left. I got all undressed, then he stormed in running at me with a scary, determined look. I woke up with my heart pounding. Then...I was like what the heck was that? It wasn't him at all, it was scary, it was just messed up! He is the sweetest harmless guy ever...but I dream that? Then last night I dreamed that me and my best friend were sitting in his room, (again he was extremely rich) and we started looking through his stuff, he had tons of stuff from exgirlfriends, drawings that looked like mine, pictures of them, notes. All of them had a spereate drawer, Then...There was mine completely empty. I felt all jealous, then I woke up. Everything was going great before this, what it my problem?! I'm ruining it with my own dreams. What is wrong with me, and what do they mean?
help,
very confused Rach
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Your dreams aren't uncommon, don't be worried about being abnormal. Nothing is wrong with you. Dreams are the minds way of working thru issues while your asleep, and may even help you understand how you feel.
Your dream could mean anything. Do you have a fear of getting intimate with him? That could be expressed by your first dream, and the fact that you didnt kiss your last boyfriend.
Or are you afraid your replaceable, or not good enough for him? Or that he's still attatched to his ex girlfriends? That could be possible considering your second dream. Just think about it and maybe even talk to him about them, his opinion might put all your fears to rest.
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I think when we have dreams that cause us to genuinely feel unsettled it must be saying something about us. Perhaps, for your new boyfriend, you see him as perfect right now. Your dream was set in the future so maybe theres something saying that youre afraid he might change in the future. As far as your best friend, us girls tend to be territorial about our best friends. Maybe you're kind of upset that he's getting so much attention but you haven't any. Maybe you're feeling left out of something in real life?.. anyway I hope I helped ;] and mayb you could interpret my dream too!
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