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If she doesn’t like me, why is she so "close" to me?
Last year I discuss my best friend that I am bi sexual and that I have a crush on her. She is fine with it but she doesn’t like me in that way. Because she is unsure of her sexuality and not ready for a relationship (she is still unsure). After the talk we had she and I are still close friends and there were times she will seemed she is flirts or teasing me but I cant tell if it means she fancy me. She leans on me, touch me and close to me. Yesterday she and I and couple of our friends were in my room watching TV. I was on the left side of my bed and she the right. I lay in my head in the middle of the bed as she too. We ended up our heads touching together. I just don’t get why she is so touchy feely to me when she isn’t attracted to me.
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It doesn't sound to me like she's just not attracted to you. In does in any case though, sound to me like she's exactly how you explained it-- unsure.
Give her some time-- because admitting and coming out to bi-sexuality is a big deal. I understand that you are bi-sexual so you've gone through all the realization and understanding steps-- she needs to go through the same process if in fact she in bi-sexual.
Take care!
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just because she is unsure and not quite ready for a relationship, it doesnt mean that she isnt attracted to you. i think that shes also attracted to you, but that it will just take time until it develops into a further relationship. you could try talking to her, or you could just wait for the feelings to grow (because it looks to me like you two will have a romantic relationship in the near future) i hope it works out for you two =]]
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Maybe you should talk to her and find out what's going on.
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You said that she's unsure and not ready for a relationship, but are you sure she isn't attracted at all? She may be toying with the idea in her head and that is why she acts that way towards you; because she's unsure and not ready for a relationship she just might be trying to figure it out without without jeopardizing your friendship. OR perhaps you may be overanalyzing what she does. she may just be comfortable with you because you are her best friend and she feels comfortable with you.
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