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service sororities in college and what else?


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 4:52 pm

I am going to college soon and having a really hard time with the idea of leaving my friends and moving out. So i was told to join clubs. I tend to only hangout with guys though. I really want to break that habit and join an all girl sorority although i am not really the partier, what is a service sorority? Could that be what i am looking for or is there something better for me? I am more for sports for fun, art of all kinds, and just a really chill person not too wild.

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how do make new friends in college?


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 4:47 pm

I know there is many people out there in my same situation, and people who have already gone through this, so everyone's advice is welcome. I am graduating my high school in under a month and going straight into one college then in August i am moving out to a college four hours away with no car. I am scared out of my mind and really don't want to leave all my friends I have finally gotten really close to this year. Each of us is going to a different college hours or states away. Transitioning into high school from grade school I lost touch with all my old friends, so how do i prevent that from happening with my high school friends? Also, how do I make new friends? I am extremely shy when I don't know people but I eventually open up, so it w...

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How to dress awesome for cheap?


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 1:58 pm

Hey I'm 13,
And I really like Bella thorns way of dressing but it's really expensive I don't no what to do? And we're can I find Bella's jewerie for cheaper and her shoes. I'm really stuck here please help!!

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gaining trust with my ex boyfriend how can i?


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 1:33 pm

I am 39/f he is 38/m...Ok!me and my ex had been friends for 13yrs before he asked to take it farther.Hed always been the the love of my life,so of course I said yes.Lasted a whole 2months,because all my past relationships including a 12yr marriage were physically and mentally abusive.I guess what happened was I started getting needy and clingy and very insecure,without realizing what i was doing,i let my past mental abuse dictate my feelings.He never gave me any reason not to trust him,but little by little he started withdrawing and getting distant.Scared the heck out of me.The more he backed away the harder i tried.One night while he was in the shower I looked in his phone,which at the time I knew wasnt right but it was like i kept thinkin...

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My Mom Loves My Brother More...Help?


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 12:34 pm

Well I used to be the prize in the family. You know straight A's, popular, a good kid, and everything you could ask for in a kid. When I got to 6th grade it was harder because my school is for all gifted students so I got A's B's and a C. My parents weren't happy but I still was the prize. Then my brother decided to try going into the Army. All of a sudden everything changed. I'm the one that does all chores except one and if I don't do them I get in trouble but my bro doesn't get in trouble in he doesn't do his ONE chore. If one speck is left on the counter, I get yelled at and when my mom is in a bad mood because of me she goes to my brother and says "SOMEONE made me mad, it's ok honey, it's not your fault." She gets upset with ...

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Losing motivation


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 10:32 am

18/f.
I've been playing the drums for about 7 years if you count from when I started. I am not regular though.

My first year was taking basic lessons every weekend. The next 5 years were in the school band where I didn't really play the drumset per se, I had a lot of other parts too. I only occasionally played my drum set at home.

In my 6th year of drumming, I had a band for about 5 months but I was playing the same 6-9 songs. I didn't fit in with the band and they found a better dude drummer (they were all guys they just wanted me cos it would look cool to have a female drummer). That's fine cos I was taking my GCE O levels that year.
I have a band with my 3 closest friends but we aren't exact...

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my question is about pregnancy


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 10:31 am

can girl become pregnant ihf she has sex not during period but after 10 days of period

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restraining order


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 8:18 am

I am 25 yrs old and I came from Mexico 10years ago on a visa. My visa expired and I was aware that I could be removed from the country anytime. I met this guy at school and we fell in love right away. everything happen so fast, he stayed at my apmnt once and never left. He loved that I was very independent and a hard worker. He had trouble with the law and he was trying to finish his 4 year probation. Sooner than later I realized he had an anger problem, but I still loved him so much. We fought multiple times were he would loose control and break everything he could. He knew about my situation with immigration and begged me to marry him so I was not on deportation risk anymore. I married him without anyone knowing about it. couple months la...

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depressed


Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 12:01 am

I don't know what's going on. I'm really depressed..really stressed I don't wanna live anymore

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Shit...am I really losing feelings for him? He doesn't deserve it.


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 11:53 pm

I have the most amazing guy all to myself as my boyfriend. He is crazy funny, very caring, comforting, and understanding, and I can really be myself around him. I don't ever get scared or nervous around him. It's like I have known him for years. He is thoughtful. He surprises me with cute little trinkets and places I've always talked about wanting to go to. He never lets me down and I have a prince charming on my hands. He always lets me know he loves me and does all these sweet things for me. I hate being away from him, and we've been dating for 8 months. We talk a lot of our future together.

I don't know what it is lately, but I have been getting very annoyed with him. The things I'd normally find cute I find very very very...

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I like my boss as a father figure


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 11:25 pm

I am in 20s, a college student female, also working full time for this person almost half a year. He is very smart person in his 50s or even more, and we all respect him. We rarely see each other because he is very busy with his other locations - businesses but he always calls to the office to check things. The thing is that I like him as a father, I respect him and do what he tells me to do. Whenever I have a problem, he helps me and solves all my problems right away. He asks about my college, whether I was doing good in school and stuff like that. He treats me as if I was his daughter (At least that's how it seems to me). Also he has a large family, a wife and several grown up children my own age. I like him so much that I even miss hem s...

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remembered a song but not really. help!


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 9:31 pm

Theres this song from the 90s that I absolutely used to LOVE. I dont know the name.. the artist.. and I dont even remember the beat, I just remember I used to love it and now I cannot remember it and its driving me insane.

Anyways.. it was a hip hop/pop style. It was about a guy who was cheating on his girlfriend (or maybe even wife?) with another woman. I don't remember exact lyrics but I remember him saying something about how he doesn't want to come home with lipstick on his collar, the smell of her perfume.. and all that.

I also remember it saying the word "wifey" in it. I dont know if it was something like "I want to make you my wifey" or "I dont want my wifey to know"
...

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My mind is going crazy


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 7:46 pm

So here goes... a couple weeks ago my boyfriend was over at my house and well things went crazy the clothes were on and everything and it was like a 'dry' session if you know what I mean and well I felt uncomfortable I never wanted that and I told him to get off because that was just weird. Days later he told me he came and he's an idiot and 'm not with him anymore. SO i got my period a few days later like normal, on the day expected. But right now I have the worry that I'm somehow pregnant. Is that possible? I've done research and it says I can't and I got my period the days later but my mind keeps thinking I am. I know I can't be. How can I help my mind get over the thought? I don't want to be pregnant I'm only 15.

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Video Tape Exploition


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 6:57 pm

I am in desperate need of advice. Couple years ago, a guy got me drunk a few times before we had sex. We had a thing for a little while but the times I drank around him were few. I think he has a video of us or me naked. He admitted to it several times and denied it several times. He described the time it happened. The reason I approached the idea to him was because I remember a camcorder right next to the bed a specific night we messed around but I was drunk out of my mind and don't recall several hours of that night but I remember waking up half sober/half drunk and seeing it right there and he told me he didn't record anything but there were a tone in his voice when he said that insinuating he did. He denied it everytime I asked until re...

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He confuses me..


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 6:13 pm

Ok so I have a boyfriend and we are the standard couple. We fight sometimes but easily get over it. We recently got into a fight because we were talking on Skype and we were on eachothers facebook accounts and looking through convos and I read one on his profile to my best friend that said "Well to be honest, I never really stopped liking you" I was crushed and hurt and we got into a fight about it. I couldnt stop crying because I was heart broken. I love him so much! Anyways, I told him that even if he liked my best friend a bit that I would never stop loving him. Today, he said that he stopped liking her and he loves me with all his heart. Then, he said "Im not gunna tell her that I dont like her anymore though." Why would he say that? He confuses me sometimes :$

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Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 5:55 pm

how can you tell if a man is wanting more than friendship from you

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how can i make him last longer?


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 5:38 pm

Hiya there, 16/f..
Me and my boyfriend are going to lose our virginity to eachother pretty soon and I've heard that boys often climax too quickly and get too excited during their first time.. so has anyone got any little flirty foreplay tips or something to make him last longer so we can both remember it?

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will it hurt?


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 5:34 pm

Okay, I'm 16/f and straight and things have been happening lately with a guy and I think we may lose our virginity because to be quite honest all we've been doing is 'sexting' for weeks and he seriously asked what contraception we should use. We've been really mature about it and we know we' re ready. Thing is I am a bit worried about my cherry popping and it bleeding all over the sheets, especially at his house! Any advice? (I know I can't stop it from happening obviously)

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should i spit on my hands!?


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 4:46 pm

This might be a really weird question, and I'd love it if a guy answered this question.. I'm 16/f and I was wondering if a boy would enjoy it more if I spat on my hands before giving him a hand job to make it wet and smooth, if you know what I mean, any advice? I know every boy is different, will this turn a boy on or is it just gross!?

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How long to wait before asking a girl to be your girlfriend?


Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 3:28 pm

So when is the right time to ask a girl to be your girlfriend? I'v been friends with this girl for a couple of months now - we went out to the movies about 4 times, we text occasionally, chat on Facebook etc. She obviously likes to hang out with me but I'm not sure if her intentions are purely friendly or I might have a shot. Anyway... On one hand, I hear people say you must NEVER get into the "friend zone" because you're never getting out of it; on the other hand, a friend of mine told me it takes TIME for a woman to grow attached to a man, meaning that being friends first is somewhat necessary. So should I wait for a couple of months more or go for it? I don't wanna blow it by asking her to soon, and I don't wanna wait too long ...

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