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He confuses me..
Ok so I have a boyfriend and we are the standard couple. We fight sometimes but easily get over it. We recently got into a fight because we were talking on Skype and we were on eachothers facebook accounts and looking through convos and I read one on his profile to my best friend that said "Well to be honest, I never really stopped liking you" I was crushed and hurt and we got into a fight about it. I couldnt stop crying because I was heart broken. I love him so much! Anyways, I told him that even if he liked my best friend a bit that I would never stop loving him. Today, he said that he stopped liking her and he loves me with all his heart. Then, he said "Im not gunna tell her that I dont like her anymore though." Why would he say that? He confuses me sometimes :$
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I had a similar situation only the girl was his ex and we hated each other a ton. Depends on a few things, how long have you been together, how old you are, how long they've been friends, and how good of a friend she is to you. If she's really your best friend, she would never consider him as an option and he would get over his little crush. And if he says he LOVES you, then whatever he feels towards her is probably just an infatuation. Meaning it's only because she's pretty. I wouldn't worry too much about it, just be honest with him that it hurt you he said that and that you're confused as to why he won't tell her. Maybe he just wants to avoid an awkward conversation. But never assume something without asking first! Hope this helps!!:]
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In my opinion, he doesn't want you to feel jealous but also he doesn't want to end friendship with that girl. But look, people can have friends. I bet you have some male friends too. So cheer up. If you trust him, everything will be fine.
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I believe it's pretty normal for a person to like another people even though they are a relationship. It's sad but true.
That does not mean that he loves you any less or that he doesn't care about you. If he told you that i think it means that he is not going to cheat on you or anything but he can't stop that feeling. I think you should tell him to back off a little bit with her so he can forget about those feelings and you forget about her and try to work on your relationship. Try to do things that reminds him why he loves you. Good luck with that and don't be afraid to contact me if you have anymore troubles.
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