Member Since: April 13, 2012
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Last Update: April 13, 2012
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my boyfriends best friend tries to come close to me..he said he likes me, but he behaves very innocent in front of my boyfriend....... my boyfriend trusts him a lot. If I tell my boyfriend I think it would start drama between them & maybe me. Should I tell him? (link)
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These situations are always sticky, but not doing anything about the situation never ends well. The better thing to do is explain everything to your boyfriend. He might get upset with his friend, but it would end whatever weirdness is going on. If you don't really have the guts for that (some people just can't) then at least talk to his friend about it. Tell him how it's wrong he's doing that to his friend and it makes you uncomfortable. Just remember; if you make it into a big deal it will be. Casually tell him saying something like, "Hey so Bob has been flirting with me or something lately, is it like a test or something?" Something light but also getting the point across that there's something going on. Hope this helps!!:]
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Ok so I have a boyfriend and we are the standard couple. We fight sometimes but easily get over it. We recently got into a fight because we were talking on Skype and we were on eachothers facebook accounts and looking through convos and I read one on his profile to my best friend that said "Well to be honest, I never really stopped liking you" I was crushed and hurt and we got into a fight about it. I couldnt stop crying because I was heart broken. I love him so much! Anyways, I told him that even if he liked my best friend a bit that I would never stop loving him. Today, he said that he stopped liking her and he loves me with all his heart. Then, he said "Im not gunna tell her that I dont like her anymore though." Why would he say that? He confuses me sometimes :$ (link)
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I had a similar situation only the girl was his ex and we hated each other a ton. Depends on a few things, how long have you been together, how old you are, how long they've been friends, and how good of a friend she is to you. If she's really your best friend, she would never consider him as an option and he would get over his little crush. And if he says he LOVES you, then whatever he feels towards her is probably just an infatuation. Meaning it's only because she's pretty. I wouldn't worry too much about it, just be honest with him that it hurt you he said that and that you're confused as to why he won't tell her. Maybe he just wants to avoid an awkward conversation. But never assume something without asking first! Hope this helps!!:]
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