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My boyfriends best friend tries to flirt with me...?
my boyfriends best friend tries to come close to me..he said he likes me, but he behaves very innocent in front of my boyfriend....... my boyfriend trusts him a lot. If I tell my boyfriend I think it would start drama between them & maybe me. Should I tell him?
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Plain and Simple this guy is jealouse of your relationship and is trying to sabotarge it.
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These situations are always sticky, but not doing anything about the situation never ends well. The better thing to do is explain everything to your boyfriend. He might get upset with his friend, but it would end whatever weirdness is going on. If you don't really have the guts for that (some people just can't) then at least talk to his friend about it. Tell him how it's wrong he's doing that to his friend and it makes you uncomfortable. Just remember; if you make it into a big deal it will be. Casually tell him saying something like, "Hey so Bob has been flirting with me or something lately, is it like a test or something?" Something light but also getting the point across that there's something going on. Hope this helps!!:]
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Hiding this from your bf is the wrong thing to do in any way possible. first your letting a fake friend stay by your bfs side and second ur hiding it from ur bf. a relationship is all about trust. tell him as soon as possible. he will understand you and maybe there will be drama but it's for the best
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Hey.
Why not speak to your bf's friend about how you feel first?
If he was anything of a friend to your boyfriend he'd be a friend to you as well. And if he's a friend to you then he'd know when he had taken things too far. Pull him to a side and talk to this guy, being polite. Just ensure you're firm but friendly and fair.
And if it doesn't stop, letyour boyfriend know. Who cares if it causes arguments between them both? You gave his friend a chance, and so did your boyfriend.
All you can do is try and find out-good luck :)
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Hey there,
This guy is being very two faced indeed.
If this is making you uncomfortable then you need to confront your boyfriend about it. You should be able to communicate with one another about things like this. If he loves you he will believe you and have a word to his friend.
alternatively you could speak to the friend and let him no in no uncertain terms that his behaviour is unacceptable and it makes you feel uncomfortable.
bottom line you shouldn't be placed in this situation.Confront the friend first and if he doesn't back off then tell your boyfriend.
Best of luck hope I helped!
much <3
Jess 18/f
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I think the best way to work around this is to confront your boyfriend's best bud (who by the way has proven to be a horrible friend, what with going after you and all). He is being two-faced. Tell the best friend that what he is doing is wrong, he will never have you and to stop doing what he's doing.
Alternatively, you could subtly direct conversations with your boyfriend toward finding out how much he really trusts his friend in comparison to how much he trusts you, and if he would believe you if you were to tell him something as 'absurd' as this. Best of luck!
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