Member Since: April 16, 2012
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Last Update: April 16, 2012
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I have a question? i had Anal sex 3days ago with my boyfriend. and it hurt in the begining but after a while it started feeling good and i was liking it. so now 3 days ltr i have been constipated can having anal sex cause me to have constipation it hurts so bad i cant even poop when i go to the toilet nothing comes out. and it really hurts so what can do to help myself go to the toilet thanks (link)
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Stop doing Anal sex then. Drink some hot chocolate .
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i am a 58 year old man i am good looking and in good physical shape.i like to smell my morning breath.i will put off brushing my teeth as long as i can.i enjoy the smell of my morning breath.i am single.what causes that (link)
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That is disgusting sorry mate
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Me: 16/Female, Junior. Him: 18/Male,Senior. So this guy, we’ve been best friends for three years. Literally. Best friends. I could go on for pages and pages and pages and pages about our friendship, how much it means to me, how much its helped me through so many tough times, how he’s basically my rock yadayadayada. I can’t go on about it, but you got to get it in your head that this kid means SO MUCH to me.
And that’s also kind of the problem. He means so much to me. He means so much to me, and as of recently, we started hooking up. I know, BAD IDEA. Please don’t lecture me. We hook up, friends with benefits kinda thing, and we try not to let anyone know about it.
That’s not really the main problem though. The combination of him meaning so much to me, and me hooking up with him has obviously gotten me thinking some “more than friends” kinda thoughts. Which he has made it very clear on very many occasions, will never happen. I’m a junior, he’s a senior, he’s going to college, it’s just not going to happen. We will never date. It hurts me though. I literally think I’m in love with him. And it sucks. And I can’t tell him about it.
Another side of our relationship: the side where I’m a push over and he loves it. He’s a 6’2 jacked up football player. I’m 5’3 100 pounds, and yes, I’ll admit it, weaker than shit. Already physically he pushes me around a lot. He’s a very impatient, pushy guy. Nothing bad, he’s never hurt me or anything, he just knows that if he wants something his way, he’ll have it his way and I can’t stop him. I don’t know how to explain it. We’re good enough friends that if were sitting in his car eating some chips and I wanna turn the volume on the radio down, I’m gonna reach over and turn down the volume. And he’s gonna grab my wrist and turn it back. Ill reach with my other hand and he’ll just hold both my wrists in one hand and not let go until I say “fine, you win, volume stays where it is”. What else can I do? I let him push me around in other ways too. I hate it, but yeah sometimes I feel like his bitch. That’s just my personality, I do what I’m told, I don’t like causing a lot of issues. But he takes advantage of this and I know it.
I just don’t know what to do. He really is a good friend to me. I’m not saying anything about all the good parts… Like how he constantly sticks up for me, uses his size to protect me (or beat my ex boyfriends ass when he slapped me), or holds me when I cry and buys me ice cream when I’m sad. I’m so confused about everything… How he treats me, how I feel about him… And I just don’t know what to do from here but I’m not happy. Please help.
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Speak with him online that way he doesn't have to see you when you ask questions. Your choice.
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it's like he's always trying to make me smile or laugh, by joking around or just acting silly in general around me. we have the same sense of humor so i usually respond this way, or if he makes some random noise or something I'll be like "what?" and just giggle. he does a lot of random things like that and he doesn't say why. i'm confused!
i've never seen him act this extroverted towards anyone else before. sometimes he teases me over nothing, too. we sit next to each other in class and often when it's quiet i feel like there's this awkward tension between us, but idk if it's just me, since i have a huge crush on him. but we've never addressed our feelings towards each other. i don't know him that well. we're both these reserved, awkward teens
why does he feel like he needs to impress me when i'm already crushing on him! hard! why won't he just ask me out if he likes me, or even ask for my number? he's not a player or anything, too, he's the geeky/nerdy type (well, so am I) and i've never seen him dating another girl actually. we're 17 btw. BUT at the same time, despite all the attention he gives me during class, when I see him in the hallways it's like he's ignoring looking me in the eye, even though not many people cross that hallway! so now I'm even more confused (link)
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He likes you but maybe he is shy and is afraid of rejection. He will ask you for your number when he is ready.
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My ex-boyfriend and I ended our relationship about a few months ago. It was due to a misunderstanding. Here's the story... about a year ago, I found out that I would have to eventually relocate to a new city with my family about four hours away from where I live now. Now my family lives there and I have stayed back to finish up my years of undergrad left. I have now decided to transfer with two more years left to go. I used to spend vacation time, like winter, etc, with my family at their new residence. When I was there, I forgot about everything down where I was staying because I was close with my family again. I am a family-oriented person and living away from them was very hard for me. During winter break of last year, was the time we stopped talking. We weren't an official couple before winter break. We were broke up. Ok, to clarify, we went out a year ago and then things happened, we called it off and I went out with someone else... he didn't but things didn't work out on my side but he started talking to me again and we eventually hooked back up. We were never an official couple again but we would still talk to each other and we even "consumated" the "relationship." It was our first, and this was a like a month before winter break. We talked about being in a relationship and he's told me that he liked being single with no attachments and freedom. I told him the same thing too, but mostly, I said this because I was afriad to be with him again because we had a first rough breakup.
So during that winter break, I tried to convince myself that I would try to move up to orlando to be with my family and get to know new people. I tried to convince myself that I could have a future with my ex. We spoke almost everyday during the break up until he went on vacation those last weeks. After the vacation, we never spoke back to one another. I ran into him the first week of the semester and without thinking straight, after all that convincing I tried to do to myself, I told him that I was going to move to orlando and that there was nothing left for me here. I think he was upset a little but he said with calmness "oh.. well im sure they should accept you." I had to run because I was going to be late for class but I didnt really get to explain why I made my decision.
I saw him the next day at a party, with an old friend of mine and they were talking to each other. She was very close with him, almost all over him. I was astonished to see this, he ignored me and so much more. I tried to ask him what the matter was over the next few weeks and i got nothing out of him. I finally asked him if he and the girl were talking and he said yes that they like each other, When i asked him why, he said that i shut him out when i was on vacation and that whhen he told me he had feelings for me, i blatantly said i didnt. I never said these things, infact, i said that i stil liked him but because he didnt want a relationship, i didnt either. we were both scared of reality even though we were very close. i dont know why he just changed his mind and didnt give me a chance. the first time we had issues as a couple was because of something similar to this, where he felt that i didnt like him enough and he tried getting with another girl.. that hurt a lot considring he was my first boyfriend...
Its been months and a few weeks ago he sent me an apology stating that he's sorry and he doesnt need to know that i forgive him but i should try to for my own sake so that i can find a guy who can make me happy. he admits he was a jerk and is sorry.
yessterday, i went to his house for a family function and the girl was there. i know they arent a couple but they are talking and he's taking things slow with her , because im guessing he wants things to last. with me, he rushed our realtionship because he wanted things to pick up fast. he already introduced her to his family, something he never did with me. and i dont know, i feel cheated after all these years, he tries to make things oh so perfect with her after we got screwed over. at his house, i felt really sad knowing that this coulld have been where i was given the chance to impress his family.
my parents never knew about our realtionship, they are very strict but hers knows and she has more freedom of being with him. whereas, i didnt. so i dont know how to feel. i feel really sad knowing that one thing i said to him, screwed everything up. i felt like i was right at the time but now, without him, i feel like i was so wrong for saying it. what should i do? (link)
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You know life can be very difficult at times , however you have to try and move on. Although I really hate when people tell me that I guess it is the right answer. What can you do, you state that your family didn't know about your relationship so realistically where was it going anyway. Don't tell yourself he doesn't care, all he is doing is moving on in a relationship which is allowed to grow. It must be really hurtful to witness him butt kissing the new chick, trust me he is trying to make this relationship work that's all. Time is definatley a healer.
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Hello, so I've been with the same guy for only about 3-4 months. In the beginning, I didnt want to date him, I just basically hung out with him a lot and liked him a little.He was extremely obsessed with me and I just didnt like that. As soon as I finally gave in and decided to date him, things started to change. We began hanging out a lot (maybe too much) and he didn't seem as happy to be with me. I asked him about it and he basically said that he just isn't as excited to be with me as he used too and that he used to like me so much more. This hurt me so much because I finally started to really like him. He made it seem like the only reason he doesn't like me as much is because we are ALWAYS with eachother. I want to start giving him space but I'm scared that he will still be bored of me. What should I do to make him feel like he used to feel in the beginning? (link)
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That doesn't come as a surprise, truth be told, he is feeling content with the fact that you are both dating now so I guess he feels he doesn't need to try as much?
Best thing is not to become so predictable and try and change a few things about you. Try to branch out on your own more often and show how independent you are, eventually he will notice that you are not insecure and again the dating trip becomes more of a challenge!!
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I am contemplating taking the "Green Tea Triple Fat Burner" diet pill- Of what I have read about it is more of an energy booster than an actual diet pill (you still need to diet and exercise to lose the weight). However, on the side of the box it says that it contains a chemical that someone believes causes birth defects. Does that mean if you take it while pregnant, or if anybody takes it can cause them in the future. I am only 21 so I am not planning on being pregnant anytime soon so would that be harmful? I am not planning on taking them for very long, I just need help to jump start my weight loss, I am trying to lose about 10 pounds.
Thanks so much! (link)
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Green Tea Is very good for you added to running you will do really well. All you have to do is run for approximatley 30 mins three days a week and you will see great results. The other tea that you could try is called Slim Tea.
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So here goes... a couple weeks ago my boyfriend was over at my house and well things went crazy the clothes were on and everything and it was like a 'dry' session if you know what I mean and well I felt uncomfortable I never wanted that and I told him to get off because that was just weird. Days later he told me he came and he's an idiot and 'm not with him anymore. SO i got my period a few days later like normal, on the day expected. But right now I have the worry that I'm somehow pregnant. Is that possible? I've done research and it says I can't and I got my period the days later but my mind keeps thinking I am. I know I can't be. How can I help my mind get over the thought? I don't want to be pregnant I'm only 15. (link)
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I was pregnant at 17, stop having sex you are too young. Go college or take up swimming. Live your life but not trying to grow up to quickly, trust me i know.
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my boyfriends best friend tries to come close to me..he said he likes me, but he behaves very innocent in front of my boyfriend....... my boyfriend trusts him a lot. If I tell my boyfriend I think it would start drama between them & maybe me. Should I tell him? (link)
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Plain and Simple this guy is jealouse of your relationship and is trying to sabotarge it.
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I am sick and tired of being shy and I just recently figured out why I am. I know I have to just accept not everyone in not gonna like me but...It's hard for me. How can I do this? Is there a way to just forget about caring? I have a good set of friends and have no reason to be scared of this but I am and it's an obstical in my life that I want to overcome because it's blocking me from doing what I want to do. Thanks. :D (link)
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Being Shy can sometimes hold one back in life if you don't take control of the situation. I suffer from server shyness so much that it stops me from socialising with other people.
However the important thing is to try and get your doctor to try and arrange Cognitive Therapy, this will enable you to free yourself from this condition. Whatever you found out about yourself and why you are a shy person, write it down and add good and bad points to the list , this helps you to try and come to terms with whatever it is. The way that I cope is to try and tell myself there are a lot of unfortunate people out there in the world and compared to them I am quite lucky. Other than that you have to try and take up running or some other social activity to try and get yourself out there. I hope I have been of some help?
Kind Regards.
Mermaid999.
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