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Current boyfriend is getting "bored"
Hello, so I've been with the same guy for only about 3-4 months. In the beginning, I didnt want to date him, I just basically hung out with him a lot and liked him a little.He was extremely obsessed with me and I just didnt like that. As soon as I finally gave in and decided to date him, things started to change. We began hanging out a lot (maybe too much) and he didn't seem as happy to be with me. I asked him about it and he basically said that he just isn't as excited to be with me as he used too and that he used to like me so much more. This hurt me so much because I finally started to really like him. He made it seem like the only reason he doesn't like me as much is because we are ALWAYS with eachother. I want to start giving him space but I'm scared that he will still be bored of me. What should I do to make him feel like he used to feel in the beginning?
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it seems you landed a "Tom". If you are familiar with the show Tom and Jerry, Tom is the cat who was always chasing after the mouse Jerry. Your boyfriend is the cat and unfortunately he caught you and now is bored because he has nothing to chase after.
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That doesn't come as a surprise, truth be told, he is feeling content with the fact that you are both dating now so I guess he feels he doesn't need to try as much?
Best thing is not to become so predictable and try and change a few things about you. Try to branch out on your own more often and show how independent you are, eventually he will notice that you are not insecure and again the dating trip becomes more of a challenge!!
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