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I'm Shy Because I'm Scared Of People Not Liking Me...
I am sick and tired of being shy and I just recently figured out why I am. I know I have to just accept not everyone in not gonna like me but...It's hard for me. How can I do this? Is there a way to just forget about caring? I have a good set of friends and have no reason to be scared of this but I am and it's an obstical in my life that I want to overcome because it's blocking me from doing what I want to do. Thanks. :D
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No ones perfect if we were it would be really boring think of ur friends and family and the peeps who love u u
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Practice makes perfect. Start interacting with people and putting yourself out there. If you are confident in yourself, others will see that. The more you interact and socialize with people, the more comftorable you will feel doing this and the easier it will get. When your more social people will respond in a positive way. If people don't like you, don't let it ruin your self confidence. It is a part of life. Everyone has to deal with people who don't like them, but that's their loss
I hope I helped
Good luck:)
Sparkle26
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Being Shy can sometimes hold one back in life if you don't take control of the situation. I suffer from server shyness so much that it stops me from socialising with other people.
However the important thing is to try and get your doctor to try and arrange Cognitive Therapy, this will enable you to free yourself from this condition. Whatever you found out about yourself and why you are a shy person, write it down and add good and bad points to the list , this helps you to try and come to terms with whatever it is. The way that I cope is to try and tell myself there are a lot of unfortunate people out there in the world and compared to them I am quite lucky. Other than that you have to try and take up running or some other social activity to try and get yourself out there. I hope I have been of some help?
Kind Regards.
Mermaid999.
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Well you can't impress everybody just because you wan't them to like you. You have to accept that not everybody will like you, and that you should stick with the people that adore you for you. Just be you and tell them that you don't feel comfortable with what they have in mind and you don't have to do what they always want. That's truth =)
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