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Question Posted Monday April 16 2012, 1:04 am

I started dating somebody about a year ago. We broke up for a month, got back together for a month, broke up for three. during the last breakup i started talking to another guy, who used to be my ex's close friend. my ex then told me he wanted to get back together. i was entirely honest with both individuals about the situation, and now i can't decide what to do. on one hand, my ex never did anything for me. does not hold meaningful conversation with me, try to make me happy, tell me he cares or anything along those lines. at first things are great and then essentially i feel like his good friend with benefits, so i dont know why i care so much. the other guy though, goes out of his way to make me happy, asks me about my day, can tell if something is wrong,he pays attention to me,but will be stationed with the military out of country within the next year or so. i have absolutely no clue what to do.

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letmetellyou1970 answered Monday April 16 2012, 1:14 pm:
Only you know where your heart lies. Before going back to the ole boyfriend weigh your goals in life. If you have plenty of time to goof off. Then by all means go back to the ex. But if your looking for a meaningful relationship at this time then invest more time into this new person.

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XBrinaX answered Monday April 16 2012, 3:03 am:
Well, if you kept breaking up with your ex their were most likely good reasons for it. I say stay with the one you're currently with because he seems to be the one that makes you happier. Even though he's going out of the country, he's still their for you, maybe not physically but everything else he is. When someone's yonder, the heart grows fonder is my saying. Hope I helped!

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makebelief answered Monday April 16 2012, 2:42 am:
Go with the one that makes you happy.
Your ex boyfriend is just trying to
make a point that he want's you back,
and he misses you because your with
another guy. =) a lot of guy don't realize
what they have in front of them until their
partner leaves them.

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