Member Since: April 7, 2012
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Last Update: April 13, 2012
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I'm looking to buy a horse and I'm 13. I have an online job but it takes sooo much time just to get a dollar from that. I've seen books online about how kids can raise like $1000 a week or so. I already do chores and my parents aren't willing to pay me for them. Nobody in my neighborhood has someone I can baby sit. And I've tried putting up signs for mowing and raking lawns but they got vandelized. Any ideas? Preferably something that wont take up too much time. Thanks! (link)
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i dont know where you live but there you can usually recycle soda cans. they dont pay much but it doesnt take too much time and is not a bad idea for your age. Just get empty soda cans and take them to the recycling centers.
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My long term boyfriend hasn't been able to get a divorce or move out of his old house with his ex because money is tight and we have all just been 'getting by'.
We just found out that his ex has maxed out 6 credit cards so she can't pay for her half of the bills. I am on JSA and don't get much as I still live at my parent's but pay quite a bit of rent.
I need to know if my boyfriend will be expected to pay off her debt when the marriage is officially at an end? I do not know much about credit cards as I do not have one and never have had one in my life and don't think I would be allowed one as I am always in my overdraft. (link)
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Well first you need to find out if they are sharing the bank account or it is all separate? Who's names are the bills registered under?
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First of all, this is my first boyfriend. And I just finished high school. I think it's ridiculous of how people "date" from elementary school because by then girls brag about how they've had like 20 boyfriends. Which just sounds awful to me. To me having a boyfriend is like a potential husband in the VERY far future.
I never even liked anyone until I met him. It wasn't instantly but after a couple of classes I realized what a great guy he was and not like all the immature guys in school. I never dated anyone before and he hasn't either and we just grew close and I guess everyone just knew before I did and one day he asked me out and that's how its been.
It was just wonderful and its been less than a year but one I'm around him, I just don't feel anything special anymore. My heart doesn't race as it used to. Sometimes I couldn't think when I'm around him because just him being there made my mind blank. But now my head is clear and I just have nothing to say.
And he constantly expresses how much he loves me but somehow I just don't feel it. And it wasn't until my bst friend asked me if I even like him that made me really think. I feel awful. If we break up I don't even know how that is going to work and its not that I'm itnerested in anyone else. It's just that I really do not feel anything when I'm with him now and have a huge smile on my face when I know that text message is from him. What's your take on this? (link)
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ok let me start like this...this happens to everyone. my girlfriend also experienced it. here's the thing, when you first start going out with someone, everytime you see them, everytime you hug them or kiss them you get this undiscribablly wonderful feeling. It's GREAT. it's like you want to spend every second of your life with them.
but after a while, those special feelings kind of go away. it's simple. it is basically natures way of telling you oh you've got family, friends, school, or a job. your boyfriend is not the only thing you should be thinking about.
that is how every mature love is.
this is peefectly natural. Now too much of this is not good. what will help you guys is to do exactly what you used to do the way you used to do. like go on similar dates as you did for the first date. I'm pretty sure you had butterflies during it.
Now if that doesn't work then try new stuff, stuff you never did before. like taking a trip together or etc.
I hope this helped. goodluck
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I have the most amazing guy all to myself as my boyfriend. He is crazy funny, very caring, comforting, and understanding, and I can really be myself around him. I don't ever get scared or nervous around him. It's like I have known him for years. He is thoughtful. He surprises me with cute little trinkets and places I've always talked about wanting to go to. He never lets me down and I have a prince charming on my hands. He always lets me know he loves me and does all these sweet things for me. I hate being away from him, and we've been dating for 8 months. We talk a lot of our future together.
I don't know what it is lately, but I have been getting very annoyed with him. The things I'd normally find cute I find very very very irritating. I feel bad because I know he is just trying to make me laugh and make me feel happy. He always says that's his goal in life, to make me happy endlessly. I feel stupid. I mean, come on. I have everything I have always wanted. Yet I have been off and on with my feelings. Once I felt the same way I do now, not fond of him and feeling like I am losing feelings for him, and he cried when I told him. That hurt so bad to see him like that. We worked things out over a matter of days.
I just don't know why I feel this way. He just irritates me lately and I get mad easily and then we fight. We fight A LOT. About the dumbest stuff too, but he never yells or hits me. He just stays calm and holds me while we talk, even if I yell and cry. I feel horrible. I am so stupid to believe and let myself lose feelings for this amazing person. He doesn't deserve any of it. (link)
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what happened here is that you were spoiled with love. I personally relate to this. my gf also felt the same way. she ended up breaking up with me because she lost her feelings for me. we broke up and I ignored for a
little and that made her realize what I actually meant to her. she also went out with a group of friends and realized how uncomfortable she was with other guys. that brought back her feelings for me. I'm pretty sure there's an easier way to deal with this rather than such dramatic way, because the time I wasn't with her was very difficult for me. it's time to be honest with yourself and do whatever you have to do to gain your feelings back if you know that he is worth it.
Also do not make him sad. trust me it doesn't feel good when a person you love more than anyone else in this world is mad at you and doesn't feel the same way about you. it's heart breaking. try controlling urself when your mad and don't take it out on him. punch a pillow, ripp old newspapers, or anything not harmful to anyone or urself.
when your with him, kiss him, hug him. if u care about him that will help him. no matter how much of a though guy he is and he might not admit it but a Hug will make him feel safe.
Hope I helped. everything will be alright ull get your feelings back
I promise
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my boyfriends best friend tries to come close to me..he said he likes me, but he behaves very innocent in front of my boyfriend....... my boyfriend trusts him a lot. If I tell my boyfriend I think it would start drama between them & maybe me. Should I tell him? (link)
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Hiding this from your bf is the wrong thing to do in any way possible. first your letting a fake friend stay by your bfs side and second ur hiding it from ur bf. a relationship is all about trust. tell him as soon as possible. he will understand you and maybe there will be drama but it's for the best
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So i met this boy and he was really into me and talking to me and everything was good. We lasted like a week texting each other and personally i didn't feel like we really connected he was always the one to text me first but he didn't asked me any questions or anything it was really confusing. But that just let me know that he was into me but shy when we talked i dont knoww. Suddenly he stopped talking to me with no reason. After a week its like he got over it. And i know he finds me pretty im sure about that but i dont know how to get his interest back at me. (link)
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Well I'm a 17 year old guy and unfortunatettly really often victim of the games girls play to get attention of guys, and here are some of that work.
I have been in 3 relationships, when the girls clearly showed how they were in love with me. well they did not last so long. so here's a suggestion. PLAY A LITTLE HARD. that's proved itself on how it works on guys. when a guy can't have something, he wants it even more. the steps to this
1. get his attention
your a girl, he thinks your pretty right? use it!!!! tease him, walk up close to him and look him in the eyes. you'll see how he will text you when he gets home, or at least he will think about you before going to sleep.
2. it is very important on how you respond to him. let him text you first. ask him questions about him. about his life, family, what he likes, but don't push it to much. only text him for a few hours everyday and then say oh I have to do this I'll talk to u later
3. now it's gonna be the time period when he likes you. please don't take advantage of it. let him ask you on a date and say yea. don't be too lovey dovy, he will get sick of it. keep it simple and if after a little you see that you have to try really hard to have a conversation with him then maybe he isn't the right guy
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