A boy: i dont know how to get his interest back at me.
Question Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 1:41 am
So i met this boy and he was really into me and talking to me and everything was good. We lasted like a week texting each other and personally i didn't feel like we really connected he was always the one to text me first but he didn't asked me any questions or anything it was really confusing. But that just let me know that he was into me but shy when we talked i dont knoww. Suddenly he stopped talking to me with no reason. After a week its like he got over it. And i know he finds me pretty im sure about that but i dont know how to get his interest back at me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? grim94 answered Saturday April 7 2012, 1:11 pm: Well I'm a 17 year old guy and unfortunatettly really often victim of the games girls play to get attention of guys, and here are some of that work.
I have been in 3 relationships, when the girls clearly showed how they were in love with me. well they did not last so long. so here's a suggestion. PLAY A LITTLE HARD. that's proved itself on how it works on guys. when a guy can't have something, he wants it even more. the steps to this
1. get his attention
your a girl, he thinks your pretty right? use it!!!! tease him, walk up close to him and look him in the eyes. you'll see how he will text you when he gets home, or at least he will think about you before going to sleep.
2. it is very important on how you respond to him. let him text you first. ask him questions about him. about his life, family, what he likes, but don't push it to much. only text him for a few hours everyday and then say oh I have to do this I'll talk to u later
3. now it's gonna be the time period when he likes you. please don't take advantage of it. let him ask you on a date and say yea. don't be too lovey dovy, he will get sick of it. keep it simple and if after a little you see that you have to try really hard to have a conversation with him then maybe he isn't the right guy [ grim94's advice column | Ask grim94 A Question ]
kittenlover2000 answered Saturday April 7 2012, 11:36 am: Hey,
You could text him? Just think of an excuse first and then go for it.
To be honest, he's probably not showing interest because he thinks you're not interested in him.
Although it is good to take a backseat in these things (e.g let him text first) because then you don't come across as needy and as a guy he'll find that attractive.
But then if you don't initiate the text first at all he'll stop texting you as he's sees it pointeless and a waste of effort if you're not into him. Just send him a text, but then hold back again.
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