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Ok so I reccently broke up with a guy and I still love him. I broke up with him because he was issolating me from my friends. He said last night that he still likes me alot and then today, I caught him wheeling my best friend. He says it was to make me jealous but I honestly was in so much pain not jealously. It is painful to see him at school all the time. I couldnt stop thinking about him last night and I fell asleep to mine and his song and everytime I hear the song, I start to cry because I love him but let him go. None of my friends likes him for issolating me and my best friend (the one hes wheeling) was talking to me today and she said that he pushed her but she kinda acted like she liked it. I love him so much and I told him this and he said that he doesnt want to have to wait for me forever. Its painful to see him and talk to him and I cry when mine and his song plays, I love him so much. What should I do? (link)
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I know how you felt when you were issolated from your friends. I'm in almost same situation.
Have you ever tried to talk to him about your friends? If you had and he hadn't changed his mind, there would be no sense to come back together. But if you hadn't talked about it, you should absolutely try it!
I know you love him but you can't be with someone you aren't happy with, even if you love each other. For me, it is a 'sick' relationship. I'm in one so I know what I'm talking about. He CAN'T tell you not to see your friends. Imagine that you sacrifice them and end this friendship and when you both break up again, you won't have any person you can talk to. Do you want it?
Btw. You didn't write how old you are, so if you can, write it down. It will help us to give you advice.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for quiet a while now. The last time he ignored my calls during the weekend was because he had gone to a party. Lucky me he answered without knowing so I was able to hear it. I don't mind him going to parties at all and he knows that. Last night he couldn't answer his phone once again, and he said it died and I understood. Turned out that he was with his friends bowling and working out. He said he couldn't call me from his friend's phone because I have a new number that is not the same area code as where we live so it's much harder to memorize. I let that go cuz it seemed understandable to me. Tonight He insisted I call him during my work break. I did so, and got nothing. It seemed as if his phone had been turned off, or was dead. Later on after work I tried again and texted him. Finally he answered. Later on he answered when I told him that he is too cool to text me. He then started telling me how much he loves me and that he could never be too cool. And asked "who else could I have other than you?" he then went on to talking about how he was tired and has to wake up at six in the morning for work. For some reason I feel like something is going on. Did my saying that he was too cool to text me imply that he was with someone else? Is he trying to tell me something? (link)
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You should talk to each other. Tell him that you feel like something is going on. You don't really have any prove that he was meeting someone else - these are only yours suppositions. So don't blame him for something you aren't sure he did.
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I need a fast/painless way to commit suicide. I've already made up my mind so please don't tell me not to do it. (link)
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Perhaps you are desperate, something happened and you don't know how to deal with it. You don't want any help because you think that there is nobody for you and nobody can help you. We can't tell you how to commit suicide. But please don't think only of yourself. My boyfriend wants to commit suicide too. And neither you nor he knows what influence it will have on other's lives. Think of people you hurt. And think of people who would do everything to stay longer on this world. Don't be egoist. We've got only one life. Don't waste it.
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Hey I'm 13,
And I really like Bella thorns way of dressing but it's really expensive I don't no what to do? And we're can I find Bella's jewerie for cheaper and her shoes. I'm really stuck here please help!! (link)
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Go to second hands - you can always find something cool. I went to sh on Friday and I found some clothes from H&M or River Island. You can also buy clothes on Internet. Maybe your sister or mother has some clothes they don't wear? There's a lot of options.
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I'm a 17 year old senior in high school. I have been with this girl for a year, about 4 months younger than me. First when I met her I wasn't really intersted but after talking to her a little I found out that she was the girl I had always dreamed about. Funny , charming, caring and pretty. I asked her out and everything went well until she broke up with me because of loosing her feeling for me. On her first break up attempt I couldn't control myself and ended up begging her to stay with me. That made us last one more week but I finally accepted it on her second attempt.
After that for a few days I started ignoring her, havin a terrible time getting over her. And that ended by her calling me and telling me how she regretted it and missed me. well we talked again for a little and got back together after a week or so. I was the happiest person ever until now, that I feel like we are inches away from separating. I feel like she likes this other guy and is just trying to get rid of me.
I would break up with any other girl, looking back to my other relationships when I trully did not have feelings for ex gfs, but I am awfully attached to this girl and even thinking of seprating from her makes me shake, sweat, and get naucuis. In fact I havnt been able to eat anything for the past week.
I really need help on the ways to deal with the stress I'm gonna facing and I'm going to be facing. I know I sound like a little girl, but i have really tried. she was my first love and I love her so much that if I was older I would marry her. please someone tell me what they would do in my shoes, if you weren't under such emotional distress.
Thank you for your concern. (link)
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Think about you and your future. I know you're attachted to her but for me it has no sense. She isn't sure of her feelings, although, she knows that she can treat you like that because you are always for her. And you will always be. I can imagine how hard it is for you, but in my opinion she should feel that she can lose you. And you should feel that she really care about you.
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So when is the right time to ask a girl to be your girlfriend? I'v been friends with this girl for a couple of months now - we went out to the movies about 4 times, we text occasionally, chat on Facebook etc. She obviously likes to hang out with me but I'm not sure if her intentions are purely friendly or I might have a shot. Anyway... On one hand, I hear people say you must NEVER get into the "friend zone" because you're never getting out of it; on the other hand, a friend of mine told me it takes TIME for a woman to grow attached to a man, meaning that being friends first is somewhat necessary. So should I wait for a couple of months more or go for it? I don't wanna blow it by asking her to soon, and I don't wanna wait too long either...
Any help appreciated.
(And we are both 21, for what it's worth).
Thanks! (link)
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I think that you should get to know each other better so there won't be any shock or dissapointment. I found out some things about my bf when we were togheter and I really regret i hadn't known about it before we started to go out.
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Ok so I have a boyfriend and we are the standard couple. We fight sometimes but easily get over it. We recently got into a fight because we were talking on Skype and we were on eachothers facebook accounts and looking through convos and I read one on his profile to my best friend that said "Well to be honest, I never really stopped liking you" I was crushed and hurt and we got into a fight about it. I couldnt stop crying because I was heart broken. I love him so much! Anyways, I told him that even if he liked my best friend a bit that I would never stop loving him. Today, he said that he stopped liking her and he loves me with all his heart. Then, he said "Im not gunna tell her that I dont like her anymore though." Why would he say that? He confuses me sometimes :$ (link)
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In my opinion, he doesn't want you to feel jealous but also he doesn't want to end friendship with that girl. But look, people can have friends. I bet you have some male friends too. So cheer up. If you trust him, everything will be fine.
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So here goes... a couple weeks ago my boyfriend was over at my house and well things went crazy the clothes were on and everything and it was like a 'dry' session if you know what I mean and well I felt uncomfortable I never wanted that and I told him to get off because that was just weird. Days later he told me he came and he's an idiot and 'm not with him anymore. SO i got my period a few days later like normal, on the day expected. But right now I have the worry that I'm somehow pregnant. Is that possible? I've done research and it says I can't and I got my period the days later but my mind keeps thinking I am. I know I can't be. How can I help my mind get over the thought? I don't want to be pregnant I'm only 15. (link)
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You just can't be pregnant if you got peroid. Come on. If you're freaking out, see a doctor.
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I have the most amazing guy all to myself as my boyfriend. He is crazy funny, very caring, comforting, and understanding, and I can really be myself around him. I don't ever get scared or nervous around him. It's like I have known him for years. He is thoughtful. He surprises me with cute little trinkets and places I've always talked about wanting to go to. He never lets me down and I have a prince charming on my hands. He always lets me know he loves me and does all these sweet things for me. I hate being away from him, and we've been dating for 8 months. We talk a lot of our future together.
I don't know what it is lately, but I have been getting very annoyed with him. The things I'd normally find cute I find very very very irritating. I feel bad because I know he is just trying to make me laugh and make me feel happy. He always says that's his goal in life, to make me happy endlessly. I feel stupid. I mean, come on. I have everything I have always wanted. Yet I have been off and on with my feelings. Once I felt the same way I do now, not fond of him and feeling like I am losing feelings for him, and he cried when I told him. That hurt so bad to see him like that. We worked things out over a matter of days.
I just don't know why I feel this way. He just irritates me lately and I get mad easily and then we fight. We fight A LOT. About the dumbest stuff too, but he never yells or hits me. He just stays calm and holds me while we talk, even if I yell and cry. I feel horrible. I am so stupid to believe and let myself lose feelings for this amazing person. He doesn't deserve any of it. (link)
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Well, I was in similar situation 4 months ago. I wasn't sure about my feelings for my boyfriend and I broke up with him. When I did it, I felt horrible. I didn't know what to do. I was just sitting and crying even if I was the person who broke up. I phoned him that same day and I was trying to apologise him. I wanted him back but he said no. He knew that I had been missing him and it was the only reason I called. I really wanted to be with him again, but he was so hurt... He wanted to see that I really care. And I tried. But it was connected with changing myself and it was so hard for me but I thought I loved him. It last 2 weeks. And we got back together. I was so happy! But only for few weeks... And then I realised that was a big mistake. It wasn't love, it was devotion. (We were together for 1,5 year) I haven't broken with him because I can't.
So look. If I were you, I would think of, hmm, let's call it 'advantages' and 'disadvantages'. You can make him happy and pretend that you're happy too, but it won't make things right. You don't really know if you love him in the future. I know that you don't want to hurt him and break his heart. But pretending that you love him will hurt you. I think that you should think of yourself too. What do you think he would do if he figured out that it was just a big lie?
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