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He thinks Im jealous?!?
Ok so I reccently broke up with a guy and I still love him. I broke up with him because he was issolating me from my friends. He said last night that he still likes me alot and then today, I caught him wheeling my best friend. He says it was to make me jealous but I honestly was in so much pain not jealously. It is painful to see him at school all the time. I couldnt stop thinking about him last night and I fell asleep to mine and his song and everytime I hear the song, I start to cry because I love him but let him go. None of my friends likes him for issolating me and my best friend (the one hes wheeling) was talking to me today and she said that he pushed her but she kinda acted like she liked it. I love him so much and I told him this and he said that he doesnt want to have to wait for me forever. Its painful to see him and talk to him and I cry when mine and his song plays, I love him so much. What should I do?
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ask yourself this question, would you rather have him, or have your friends? a guy that controls you, especially to the point when you don't have time for friends, could lead to an unhealthy relationship. it is disrespectful and bossy for a guy to deprive you from your friends. you have practically your whole life ahead of you. you will meet alot of other guys, go through a lot of bad situations...would you be willing to risk your friendship with your friends for the rest of your life and not have them, all because of one guy that may not even be your true love? there are plenty of fish in the sea, and when you find the one he should be respectful and treat you the right way. good friends are very hard to come by. you don't want to loose them.
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I've been in the same situation. I know its painful to see him already moving on but I think It'll be for the best. Just try being friends with him, thats what I did with my ex- boyfriend. Just hang out with your friends and you should talk this over with your best friend or someone you can trust because no one thats given you advice really knows you. Good luck, hope this helps :)
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I know how you felt when you were issolated from your friends. I'm in almost same situation.
Have you ever tried to talk to him about your friends? If you had and he hadn't changed his mind, there would be no sense to come back together. But if you hadn't talked about it, you should absolutely try it!
I know you love him but you can't be with someone you aren't happy with, even if you love each other. For me, it is a 'sick' relationship. I'm in one so I know what I'm talking about. He CAN'T tell you not to see your friends. Imagine that you sacrifice them and end this friendship and when you both break up again, you won't have any person you can talk to. Do you want it?
Btw. You didn't write how old you are, so if you can, write it down. It will help us to give you advice.
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In all honesty, why can't you just sit this guy down and talk to him and try to work it out? Why can't you just tell him you need to time with your friends as much as you need time with him? I mean... honesty and communication make a good relationship so if you couldn't even tell him that you wanted to spend time with your friends without him freaking... your relationship wasn;t that great.
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