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will it hurt?
Okay, I'm 16/f and straight and things have been happening lately with a guy and I think we may lose our virginity because to be quite honest all we've been doing is 'sexting' for weeks and he seriously asked what contraception we should use. We've been really mature about it and we know we' re ready. Thing is I am a bit worried about my cherry popping and it bleeding all over the sheets, especially at his house! Any advice? (I know I can't stop it from happening obviously)
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If your body is new to being streched down there, then yes it might hurt and you might have a burning sensation, which might ruin your mood for further intercourse. It is not 100% true that this is the case for you or that it will happen. But, it is likely. You probably won't bleed so much, but there will be some spotting, if this is the first time he's ever entering you. I honestly feel that the best way to go about it, without pain, is to start small. Have him finger you and get your body used to being open a little. As things progress, and as your body becomes comfortable to the feeling, he can improve on size. When you think you are ready to take it up a notch, then I feel you should go ahead and have sex. This is only to help minimize the pain on you.
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Hey there,
Okay well to answer your initial question will it hurt?
Well everyone's different. For me sex didn't hurt at all the first time because I think my bf had popped my cherry from fingering a lot beforehand.
But as I said everyone's different. Sex is definitely a little awkward and uncomfortable the first time because you're new to it and don't quite know what you're doing. But don't worry it's natural.
Don't be worried about your cherry popping its going to happen so just relax and try not to think about it. If you stress you will just tense up and not enjoy the experience as much as you should.
He won't care about blood on his sheets. There won't be that much anyway :)
Good luck and I hope this helps
Much <3
Jess 18/f
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