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Stuck in between him and his girlfriend


Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 7:46 pm

I know it's long but please read... I need advice.

Hi I'm 17 f, and I've been talking to this boy for about 2 months out, and at the beginning he said he had a girlfriend and he wanted to talk to me as a friend but as time went on, of course we started liking each other. And now he tells me I'm the girl of dreams but like he doesnt know what to do because he has a girlfriend and he wrote me this really sweet love poem and he always tells me he loves me and he seems so serious but I can't tell. Then like I went to dinner with him for my birthday and he paid for my food and even got me the cheesecake he knew I liked and he kept kissing me on the cheek the whole night and hugging me and everything, he even told me he loved me in...

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X & O


Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 7:01 pm

Ok so its really starting to bug me..X & O..Which is Hug..and which is Kiss??

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boyfriend


Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 6:02 pm

16/f
i'm in love with this guy, hes the same age as me and everything about him is amazing, except one thing- he smokes pot. this is my #1 turn-off in a guy. he doesn't do it alot but i still don't like it. we've only been technically "dating" for a few weeks and i just recently found out- he didn't tell me, idk if he was going to or not, but i dont know what to do, should i stay with him?

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Still in love with my ex,


Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 2:53 pm

I am still in love with my ex. When I think about him I get all hot and bothered. I want to let the thoughts of him go but its been hard. It has now been a year since we've been together. I need help to shake him. What should I do?

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ASAP urgent


Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 2:24 pm

PART 1:
Okay so there WAS this guy. But then i realized that he is not the type of guy i want to be with because he was a jerk at some points. But i just realized this morning. And he is friends with my 12 year old brother. MY 12 YEAR OLD BROTHER MADE OUT WITH AN OLDER GIRL AT THE FAIR!! Im sorry but i think that this boy is a bad influence. My brother does not need to be doing things like this at such a young age...am i wrong for thinking this?? How would you feel??

PART 2:
And another thing. There was this boy CJ that was a senior that i could have "had" but he had a girlfriend, so i kept my mouth shut. And he liked me and i liked him, but i knew he liked me. He didnt know about me. But i didnt want ...

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boyfriend or guy from another state?


Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 11:39 am

I'm f/14.
I've had my boyfriend for 5 months, and I really don't like him as much as I did at first. He seems to be pretty in love with me, though. I feel bad because I don't return the feeling.
A few weeks ago I went to this camp and met a guy I really like. I think about him all the time. He lives in a completely different state, but I email him every day.
Now I'm seriously considering breaking up with my boyfriend, but I don't know how or what to say. (It will be my first time breaking up with someone.) I'm nervous to tell him about the guy from camp because he might get the impression that I was cheating.

Any suggestions on what to do????
Thanks. =]

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losing hope/faith


Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 3:11 am

I'm 18 and I really need advice. I've been home schooled since the 5th grade because I've been dancing and singing my whole life and I couldn't stay in public school. Well, I've only had 2 boyfriends my whole life, and I've dated but I never did anything with any of them except for the 2. I only kissed the first and I was with him for 3 months, he broke up with me ON our anniversary because he was cheating on me. Then the second one I was with for a little over 8 months and I slept with him. Well, aftet he broke up with me he lead me on for a REALLY long time, like a year and a half and he treated me really badly but I didn't know how bad he really was. It's been 2 years since the guy of 8 months and I have been officially together and it's...

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gemini&gemini horoscope compatibility


Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 2:40 am

Me and my guy are both Gemini's.. Can this relationship workout so that we can get married in future.. ???
he was born on June7th 1986 and
me on June8th 1989

please help me out

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kissing


Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 2:37 am

I have a boyfriend, and I really really love him, but whenever we kiss, its like I dont feel anything. I would rather just be with him and close to him. I like feeling his arms around me rather than kissing. It's not that either of us are bad at it, and he likes it, but I just dont that much. What the heck is wrong with me??

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kissinggg


Posted Thursday July 24 2008, 12:34 am

so i just turned 16 and i have only ever pecked a guy and been felt up. thats it! some of my friends have had sex and ALL of them have atleast made out. I always get the chance to kiss some guy and its perfect but I find a way to get out of it because im sooo nervous. I dont know how the hell to kiss like that! I once pecked a guy and he like opened my lips with him tongue i was like wtf is he doing so I pulled away, then realized he was trying to make out later on haha. It felt so awkward, and I wasn't even involved, which means it will be way way awkward when I am actually kissing back.

I feel so freakin prude and I have to turn down SOOOO many sweet guys because I am too scared to kiss, and theres NO way Im telling anyone...

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Does this mean anything? Or does it not matter because he was drunk?


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 11:34 pm

I guess I'm wondering... do you think people's real feelings come out when they are drunk? Since they are more laid back and don't have as much of a fear reflex? There's more of a story but I wanted opinions on this question too.
I, and a boy I have developed slight feelings for, do not drink at home. We went on a school trip to Germany together, where it is legal to drink at our age... I didn't drink enough for it to affect me but he was a little drunk. I was cold and he told me I could sit on his leg and he would keep me warm unless it was too awkward, and I did. He kept asking me like "are your legs cold?" and then he would like rub them a little to keep them warm... and if my hands were cold... He also asked "wha...

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what to say...


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 9:45 pm

2 monthes ago I met a guy at a church activity. We hung out, talked and flirted, and I really started to like him. However the next time I saw him, he was holding another girls hand (his gf). I was really upset, but I still really liked this boy (we can call him Mark). He ended up dumping his gf a day after they started dating. I don't know why.... Anyways, I saw him again about a week ago. He came up real close and apologized for how he acted, we talked for a few minutes, but then he said he had to go. I have since been talking to him over the internet, and I want to know what to say to make him want to hang out, and maybe eventually date me. There is some hope that he may like me. My friends told me that he talks about me, or will bring m...

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heart broken...


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 9:31 pm

i was goin with this guy for six months.i fell in love with him and he fell in love with me.school eneded june 4th and i havnt seen him since then.im changing schools this year and i asked my bf if he could try to see if he could go to the same school as me.he tried really hard but unfortunately hes not in the district of the school and i am.i started to realize that i cant handle not knowing when im going to see him again.its not like i can ask my parents if i can go to the movies with him.my parents have me on a tight leash.i started crying when he told me he didnt get into the school i was going to.i told him i didnt think it was goin to work because i really cant handle an over the phone relationship. and he started crying...and let me ...

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She's 18 and pregnant.


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 7:36 pm

Okay so, my best friend since birth, lives right next to me, we're inseperable. And she was datinga complete jerk. Total ass. I hate him so much, and I always will. He was cheating on her last year, and she didn't believe me, then he came clean and apologized and said "she's the only girl for him" well, He got her pregnant, and its right before Senior year.
We start school september third and she just found out she's pregnant like, a week ago. I havn't talked to her at all, because we got into a huge fight. She doesn't have much of a mom, she hasn't seen her in almost 8 years. So I'll admit sometimes I take her mom's place.
I feel horrible, because I told her all the things she shouldn't have done and everything an...

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the guy i dream about


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 6:33 pm

okay, i've known this guys since i was like two, and now i'm foureen, so quite a long time! but 5 five years ago i started to get a crush on him, i realise i was only nine, but since then the crush has been on and off. but recently i thought it was off, but then i seem to dream about him all the time, and we flirt all the time... so my question is, if you dream about a guy, does it mean you like them? hmmm... x

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hunt for the tickets!


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 4:44 pm

I bought my boyfriend and myself tickets to a amusement park with water sides and the other rides. I dont live with him but I want to make him go crazy looking for the tickets. I want it only focused in his room and car and bathroom. I need clues/ hints all that good stuff.

Maninly I just need a plan planned out for me word to word haha so please help me out!

I want him to wake up and I can text him saying get up and look "fill in" and make him think there is a surprise there and then another clue leading him to another place and so on but in the end he finds the tickets!

Sorry if I confused anyone!

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Love


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 4:42 pm


My girlfriend ask me a question like this

" Baby you know that i love being in love with you but sometimes i get a little nervous that one day you'll fall out of love with me so just be honest with me and tell me something."

How can i keep your attention and interest?

Then she imply's " You say you will always
love me but what will keep you in love with
me? So tell me and i'll leason.

We've been together for seven years now. Don't
get me wrong we've had our up's and down's when
didn't see each other for a year. Doing the
years of break up's and makes up's she dated
another guy w...

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I don't even know him =/


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 4:40 pm

ok so here's the deal... i like this guy in my grade and i see him everyday. I really like him and i don't even know him! i don't know if hes nice i don't know if he has a girlfriend and heck! i don't even know his last name... two qustions...

1.) is it bad to like somebody u have never met?

2.) What should i do?

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Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 4:40 pm

ok i am going on a blind date should i ahve sum of my firneds come with me or not incase it goes badly and so i will have sum one to hang out with instead ir what


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real relationship?


Posted Wednesday July 23 2008, 2:03 pm

well i was just wondering how like everyone says that if you don't fight or have alot of bad times then its not a real relationship? but like i really like this guy, we're not technically dating but we both really like each other and i think he's gonna ask me out soon the next time we hang out, but we don't fight at all and we have so much fun together but we've never been in a fight yet. so my question is, is that normal? does it mean our relationship won't last because its not real? i kinda want a fight to come though because i want to see if he will still stay with me but i dont wanna like pick a fight, what should i do? thankss
16/f

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