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kissing
I have a boyfriend, and I really really love him, but whenever we kiss, its like I dont feel anything. I would rather just be with him and close to him. I like feeling his arms around me rather than kissing. It's not that either of us are bad at it, and he likes it, but I just dont that much. What the heck is wrong with me??
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well a relationship isnt just about kissing. you dont have to like it to mean that youre in a good relationship. maybe youre just not hte kissing type. dont worry too much about kissing. just have fun with him. thats what love's about. not kissing or sex, but about the fun and closeness of a couple.
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i think thats perfectly normal. dont tell him you don't like his kisses though. that will really hurt his feelings. just stress that you want cuddle time without turning it into some makeout session!!
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I don't think anything is wrong with you. Sometimes, the attraction just isn't there, and there's not really anything you can do about it.
If you don't really like kissing your boyfriend, tell him. Don't tell him you don't want to ever kiss him again or anything, because I'm sure that's not what you want. Just explain to him you like it better when you're just sitting together and he has his arms around you. There's nothing wrong with that =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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its normal, so dont worry. most people expect butterflies all the time, and that magic spark. but believe it or not, sometimes its too good to be true if that happens. something ends up going wrong in the relationship, just like if you guys have the 'perfect' relationship ( never fighting, always agreeing, etc etc). have you let him know how you like his kisses, but adore the warmth of his arms around you? the way he holds you close? guys dont mind, because it shouldnt always be about making out ;) you guys need cuddle time too. im sure he'd like the same, with a few kisses now and then. no worries, you're perfectly fine for not fully enjoying kisses.
flirty :)
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