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PART 1:
Okay so there WAS this guy. But then i realized that he is not the type of guy i want to be with because he was a jerk at some points. But i just realized this morning. And he is friends with my 12 year old brother. MY 12 YEAR OLD BROTHER MADE OUT WITH AN OLDER GIRL AT THE FAIR!! Im sorry but i think that this boy is a bad influence. My brother does not need to be doing things like this at such a young age...am i wrong for thinking this?? How would you feel??
PART 2:
And another thing. There was this boy CJ that was a senior that i could have "had" but he had a girlfriend, so i kept my mouth shut. And he liked me and i liked him, but i knew he liked me. He didnt know about me. But i didnt want to screw up his relationship. But now im thinking, it could have been love, would have been love, but wont be because i screwed up. To say i regret it is an understatement. I figured if i messed with the guy in part one the regret and feelings would go away. WRONG! And now he is at college. or going to it at least. But i dont know what to do about this. I hardly ever see him, but when i do, we sort of have a "moment". Like he will stare at me as if i am the only thing in the world, and its like something explodes inside of me everytime i see him. I dont know if this is love, like, lust, or what...can you help me with that and my regret?? and what should i do??
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Part 1:
I'd tell my brother if I were you, straight up, that they shouldn't be friends. Give him examples why he's a bad influence, and tell him that you're not trying to give him crap, just that you care and love him, and don't want him to get into trouble.
Part 2:
I'd say that regretting is you defending your heart and mind because you realize that you guys could have had "something." But, if he's in college, and he's away from home, it might've been hard to keep a relationship, anyway. Secondly, I also think that what you're experiencing is a mix of everything, including infatuation. I've felt the same way about a person, and have been in the same exact situation as you. It sucks ): But you just have to (for right now, until and/or if something changes) suck it up and deal with it. Because that's really all you can do. If he happens to be your love, because it certainly sounds like it, sometimes one person walks away, and you have to be strong enough to let them go, and give it time.
If I misunderstood you in any way, please let me know, so I can re-read it and help you.
Good luck hun, and I have aim (stated on my profile) if you need anything else, even to just talk.
Jess
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Part 1- Yes, i think this boy is bad news. He is a bad influence especially on your brother who made out with an older girl. I agree with you there.
Part 2- Maybe because that one boy you had in part one didn't treat you right, you want someone who will and you think that is CJ. I agree with you about not saying anything because he has a girlfriend. I can see why. Just hold on until he dumps his girlfriend because if he likes you, then he would dump his girlfriend for you, if he dosen't then he might not really like you. If you think he is a good guy and you want to be with him, i would wait to tell him after his relationship is over to tell him or let him know your feelings. I'm sorry your having trouble with this...i am trying to give you the best advice i can but this is a really hard situation. If you have any other questions or need advice just slip it into my inbox! Hope this helps and Good luck!
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