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boyfriend or guy from another state?
I'm f/14.
I've had my boyfriend for 5 months, and I really don't like him as much as I did at first. He seems to be pretty in love with me, though. I feel bad because I don't return the feeling.
A few weeks ago I went to this camp and met a guy I really like. I think about him all the time. He lives in a completely different state, but I email him every day.
Now I'm seriously considering breaking up with my boyfriend, but I don't know how or what to say. (It will be my first time breaking up with someone.) I'm nervous to tell him about the guy from camp because he might get the impression that I was cheating.
Any suggestions on what to do????
Thanks. =]
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Emailing does not equal cheating. Keep your options open. You are not married for goodness sake! Why are girls always so in a hurry to tie themselves in knots for a guy they just met who probably has three other girls on his mind every day? Have some fun and keep it really simple. You are really young and not likely to wed the next 300 or so guys you have crushes on in the next ten years anyway. Fun!
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I actually don't think you should tell him at all that you like someone else. I think he would get a lot more upset then he needs to be.
Tell him that you know that he cares a lot about you, and you just don't feel the same about him.
Keep it short and sweet. If he asks you questions, which he might, don't get scared, or retract your break up statement. Be prepared to answer questions like why. He just had a major burn to his ego hun, so go easy on him. You can tell him that you really love his personality or something, but you really just wish you could be friends.
I would love to hear updates from you girly!
<3/arianne, 16
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You should break up with your boyfriend, but don't tell him about the other guy. Just say something on the lines of, "Im sorry, but this isn't working out." "I dont feel the same way about you." "I like someone else." - or anything like that basically, because no matter what you say it will still hurt him. hope this helped some.
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I would just tell him that you'd be happier if you were friends and that you like someone else and you don't even have to mention who he is or where you met him, just tell him your exact feelings and i think it will turn out all okay. Hope this helps!
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