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I'm kinda lost...


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 10:58 pm

Okay so there's this guy I like. I know he knows. And when it comes to guys that I like, I'm super shy...Okay maybe a little more than shy...more like a nervous wreck! But, like I said, it only happens around guys I like. Any other time I'm extremely outgoing and most of my friends say I have a bubbly personality!
So anyway, I tend to hide behind my friends when I'm around him, I try to be slick when I'm "checking him out". But he caught me staring today. I turned "as red as a firehydrant" my friend said. And I kept peeking at him, looking down at the ground and then peeking a look at him. He is deffinately the type of guy I'd like to date but I just don't know how to approach him. Can you give me some tips?

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Did I really screw this up this badly?


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 10:56 pm

22/f
I probably wouldn't even ask this, but I told my best guy friend what I did, and he told me that what I did was very wrong to the point that even a Satanist would have problems condoning all of my actions.

It really has messed w/ my head since he said that, so I wanted your opinion on if you think I did the right things or not in this instance.

I was in college this past semester, and had 19 hours worth of classes. I also was working two jobs, one of them on campus for the housing dept., one off campus. I had been engaged to this guy I'd been w/ for 5 years from back home, but it was long distance by then because he didn't go to college. I had gotten pretty bored w/ him, and I had found a friend w...

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George & Bob


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 10:39 pm

okay, here it goes. so, the other day my two friends and I saw these really hot guys @ the mall and they surprisingly saw us. we kinda froze up & didn't make a move. we saw them going into the movie theatre and we thought of an idea to wait for them. sadly we waited for 2 hours and they weren't even watching a movie. they left and now all we have is regret!
What should we do next time?

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love letter


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 8:47 pm

i'm writing a love letter to my boyfriend who lives far away. i need help, what do i say?i want it to be really long and i want to like include some famous love quotes

any ideas?
or samples?
hell, if someone wants to write the letter for me go write a head.

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Age difference.


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 8:30 pm

I'm 15 years old, and im currently with someone that is 31, And I can honestly say I have VERY strong feeling for him. I know that sounds SO bad, if someone ever told me that I would be speechless. I also im aware that it is illegal. But I am very mature for my age, and im not satisfied being with guys my age. Their just way to immature. I just would like some feedback on what you guys think? (Please no rude comments) Thanks!

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How often should we go out?


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 6:26 pm

How often should a couple in their 20's go out together. Mind you we both work and have baseball a few nights a week.

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Is it Wrong?


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 6:24 pm

Is it wrong to want my boyfriend to lose his baseball tournament (best in the province tournament) because i want him to come to the beach with me? Mind you its been a while since we've hung out. But baseball is his passion, lol.

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guy..


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 11:14 am

i like this guy but from what i tell you, can you guys give me your opinion if you think he likes me or not?

okay so we arranged a time to hang out (through texting) and then we hung out. while we were hanging out he would always try to be near me and when i would leave the group he would tell me to come back. i was basically with him the whole night. he told alot of his secrets and like..important things and lots about his family and stuff. and when he left our hug was really long and he kinda like held me. ok by reading this your probably gunna think he likes me but then he did stuff like burp in front of me and fall alot and i remeber reading something that if a guy burps in front of you its a sign that he doesn't like you...

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He's a manipulator, a cheater, and a liar.


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 5:00 am

17/f

Lately I have been seeing this extremely 'nice' guy. Yet somehow I never got too involved with him, I just always stood back a little bit. I sure was right not to get involved. He left his hotmail open at my house and when I went to close it I couldn't help but notice emails from several girls.

Of course I looked at them - I had a weird feeling towards him. I know it was wrong. I found that all in the same day he would tell his ex girlfriend how much he 'loved' her, receive naked photos from a girl with a boyfriend, and have another girl begging him not to tell anyone that he and her had sex because her boyfriend was already suspicious that she was cheating.

Wow! What a loser. I can't get ri...

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boyfriend/best guy friend.


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 4:14 am

okay. so, i met this guy online. (i already know its dangerous, dont preach at me, lol.) I met him about a year and nine months ago. and he and have become best friends over that time. i also have a boyfriend who i love very much and he and i have been dating for a year and seven or eight months. well, the guy i met online sort of developed more than friend feelings for me. and, i am not going to lie, i have them for him, too. but i love my boyfriend. however, i love my best friend, too. i'm just not sure if i love him as just a best friend or both...

he knows everything about my relationship with my boyfriend, and he hates him. thats probably because my boyfriend isnt always the nicest person in the world to me. i mean, he i...

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too far?


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 1:54 am

okay so i have a boyfriend. me and his best friend(eric) are really close and he likes me and i like him. my boyfriend is out of town. so me and eric are hanging out one night and we have an inside joke that at 11 each night we will have sexy time.last night we kinda had it. we were in his bed and we would take turns taking off clothes. he was in his boxers and i stole his shirt so i had everything but my bra on.he undid my bra. is this cheating?

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so theres this guy


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 12:51 am

So I lived at apartments. And I would always hang out with this kid and I liked him but I was scared to ask him out, so i never did. We both moved out of the apartments. And I havent talk to him in like two years. I found his myspace like a week ago and we have been talking a lot. and I found out that he liked me. And I'm starting to like him all over again.

but there is this girl. She is a year younger than me. I use to be friends with her. But i got into the BIGGEST fight with her so now we hate eachother. And she does anything to find drama with anybody, especially me.

And she is friends with this kid i like. And she has been making up stuff about me and telling it to him. And when she told him this stuff he...

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Past Relationships


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 12:28 am

17 female.

So Ive been dating the guy of my dreams for about 7 months now. The problem is... hes not as perfect as I thought he would be.

He's had alot of girlfriends before, and hes slept with 4 of them, including a co-worker he never actually dated.

Hes the only guy Ive ever had sex with, so its hard for me. Its intimidating, and I feel like Im not good enough as they were and all the other stupid stuff us girls think about.

I feel like if I don't get over it, it's going to ruin the relationship eventually.

Hes told me repeatedly that they mean nothing to him and tried to reassure me but nothing really seems to help. Anyone got a good idea?

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MAJORboytroubles.


Posted Saturday August 2 2008, 12:19 am

well this boy and i have had a "thing"(like crushes on eachother) for over a year. all our friends are friends with eachother, everything seems perfect. last year we were talking about making it offical but i hugged to many guys he says. but the crushes still remained. so we finally had a real date just the two of us. i finally admited i like him and he said he likes me too, but now its been about a month after the date and he NEVER calls or texts me EVER! i dont know what to do and i feel like im annoying if i try to callor text him. what should i do?

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friends with benefits.


Posted Friday August 1 2008, 11:24 pm

i'm sixteen years old, and i've known this guy since i was 14 years old. i seems like ever since the first day i layed eyes on him i liked him. in the beginging we talked a lot and we liked eachother. after a while his feelings stopped towrds me, but i still liked him, after about a year i got a girlfriend and they were togther for a little more then a year. but me and him became bestfriends, but secretly i still had strong feelings for him, later he cheated on his gf with me, and a little later they broke up. after they broke up we became A LOT closer and i lost my virginity to him. i talked to him about it and he said that we are just best friends and that's all we'll ever be, but he still wants to do things? what should i do? i feel like...

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i need him.


Posted Friday August 1 2008, 11:16 pm

16/f im in love with this boy kyle. and we were dating for about two months. actually we broke up on our two month anniversary. "/ but anyway. we have known each other for about two years. he says he loves me too but he thought it was for the best. hes two grades above me and is a senior this year at a different school. he was completely mature about the break up and it couldnt have gone smoother. he said the sweetest things like hell always love me and i made a mark on his heart and hell never forget me. but i cried so hard when we broke up and i didnt think i would ever stop because he was the most amazing boyfriend i could ever ask for. he was respectful, nice, funny. basically the perfect guy. but we hadnt seen each other in a litt...

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Interpret My D00D


Posted Friday August 1 2008, 8:10 pm

Alright. My boyfriend broke up with me last March, leaving me to chase after another girl and reasoning that we just "didn't get along anymore."

I was devastated. I had been together with him for over 3 years and had spent the majority of our time together. He was my best friend and other half. He didn't talk to me for about 2 weeks, most of which I cried.

When he came back from college for the summer, we were on cordial enough terms that we thought we could see each other briefly, perhaps share a beer or two and catch up. We began to hang out more frequently, and soon found ourselves having sex again on a regular basis. He maintained that while he "wanted to be my friend," he "still ...

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how to break the news


Posted Friday August 1 2008, 5:55 pm

ok i have this situation me and this guy have been really good friends and recently our feelings have changed he likes me alot and we have been talking alot more and i developed some feelings for him as we were talking but idk wat happened i just dont feel the same no more and he really likes me he is so sweet to me treats me the way any girl would want to be treated and i feel bad because i dont have strong feelings for him like he does for me and my friends are like give him a chance and stuff so i have been and when were together its wierd now he is kinda shy and then i makes me feel wierd cuz the way our relationship was as just friends was kool always laughing and stuff now its just different and i dont really like it i feel wierd to f...

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Gotta get over it


Posted Friday August 1 2008, 5:22 pm

So i was talking to this guy when he totally just ditched me and started talking to someone else..i couldnt believe it..i fell for his game and now i regret ever talking to him..how do i get over this guy? I feel like there was no closure with him..he just ditched me one day

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Army Boy


Posted Friday August 1 2008, 3:56 pm

There's this guy Joe, he's in the army in Iraq he's almost 22, has a 2 year old baby girl, and he's married at this point in time.
I am 16, female, single,in high school. Now I don't want to hear about the age difference because we're way passed that point, so please just help me on what I need help on.
I was at a coming home party for my bestfriends big brother Devon, that is so close to me that he might as well be my big brother, and for Joe. I saw Joe playing the guitar in the living room so I sat down staring at him, he was probably the most adorable guy I've ever seen in my life. I had a boyfriend then, of a year, and we ended up breaking up that night, so I was just trying to have some fun. Me and Joe both ended up cras...

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