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i like this guy but from what i tell you, can you guys give me your opinion if you think he likes me or not?
okay so we arranged a time to hang out (through texting) and then we hung out. while we were hanging out he would always try to be near me and when i would leave the group he would tell me to come back. i was basically with him the whole night. he told alot of his secrets and like..important things and lots about his family and stuff. and when he left our hug was really long and he kinda like held me. ok by reading this your probably gunna think he likes me but then he did stuff like burp in front of me and fall alot and i remeber reading something that if a guy burps in front of you its a sign that he doesn't like you like that...can you guys tell me what you think? also if you do think he likes me, (we've only hung out twice) when do you think he'll make a move? like how long does it take for guys to be ready or whatever? thankss
im 17/f by the way.
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I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
That thing about burping isn't real. Burping is a natural human thing, so maybe he just burped because he couldn't hold it in.
--Jack
(16/m)
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I personally think it sounds like he's into you. I've never heard that a guy burping in front of you meant he didn't like you? From my experience, it just means he's very comfortable with you--Which isn't really a bad thing at all. Also, falling down could mean he's just kind of clumsy, haha.
The fact that he's always around you, tells you his secrets, and seems to hold you a lot definitely makes it sound like he likes you a lot. While it's normal to be close friends with a guy, it usually dosen't go to this level. Sure, he could just be confiding in you, but long hugs and everything aren't really required for that.
If you feel like you're into him, kind of hint at it, because it sounds like it could end pretty well, in this case. There's no saying when he'll make a move exactly, because he might not know how you feel. It sounds like you WANT him to make a move though, so just consider this:
He's probably really nervous about whether or not you feel the same. He might not even make a move until he can be more sure. He could especially feel nervous because he might not want to mess your friendship up. Try to make the way you feel pretty clear. Drop hints, and act flirty if you need to! One thing you could try is to play around and grab his hand somehow. See how long he goes before pulling away, or if he even pulls away at all. It comes off as very innocent if he DOES pull away, and you can always make an excuse for why you didn't first, but it could always be that he dosen't pull away and you guys end up holding hands. (:
Basically, put yourself out there. Try to hang out more, and see how you two are together. Guys don't really have a specific 'time' that they're ready--Some guys never figure it out, and the girls are left to make the first move. It all depends on his personality, I suppose.
Best of luck, and I hope things work out the way you want them to. :D
XOXO
KAT.
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some guys dont care if they burp in front of girls.. that has nothing to do with if they like you or not.. it sounds like he either likes your or thinks of you as a really great friend.. the only way to find out for sure is to make the first move if he hasnt already. if he likes you he could be to shy to make the first move in fear that you dont like him so maybe compliment him and drop him little hints that you like him and maybe he will make the move otherwise just do it yourself and see what happens from there
goodluck
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It could be that he burped simply...because he burped.
Guys are pretty straight-forward creatures. So most of the time there is no hidden meaning behind their actions or words.
It sounds like he's definitely interested in you and is gathering the courage to make his move. Now...when/where that'll happen is a mystery. But it definitely sounds like he really likes you.
cheers,
stargirl
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