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He's a manipulator, a cheater, and a liar.
17/f
Lately I have been seeing this extremely 'nice' guy. Yet somehow I never got too involved with him, I just always stood back a little bit. I sure was right not to get involved. He left his hotmail open at my house and when I went to close it I couldn't help but notice emails from several girls.
Of course I looked at them - I had a weird feeling towards him. I know it was wrong. I found that all in the same day he would tell his ex girlfriend how much he 'loved' her, receive naked photos from a girl with a boyfriend, and have another girl begging him not to tell anyone that he and her had sex because her boyfriend was already suspicious that she was cheating.
Wow! What a loser. I can't get rid of him right away because he will put it together that he left his email open; but I am going to have nothing to do with him in the future.
How do I get rid of him in a non suspicious way? I am either going to do that and leave quickly or have a talk with him saying I 'heard' some things. I am not afraid to confront this jerk. He knows I'm absolutely confident and exactly how I handle jerks - no sympathy. I feel like it's my job to stop him or at least make him feel horrible about himself so maybe he will stop. Any advice or suggestions? Thanks.
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Honestly, just straight out tell him. "Hey, you left your hotmail up and I went to close it and saw something from a girl & it didn't seem appropriate so I read it & come to find out your pretty much a slut." Men like this, do not deserve girls like you or any girl for that matter.
I don't know what it is with guys. They have such a big ego and think that girls don't have feelings. I'm quite frankly, getting fed up with men like this.
Trash him. You can do so much better than a slime like him anyways.
Oh, and no matter what anyone says, if their boyfriend left something like that up at their house, every girl knows she would go through it. So it's okay to just come out and told him your a girl and thats what girls do; go through their boyfriends stuff ;]
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Why hide the truth? The truth is, you made a mistake rooted in curiosity, and he is a total man whore…
You made a mistake, yes, however that doesn't make his behavior all right. If it were only one of those things... give the guy the benefit of the doubt, but if he's had all three of those girls connected to him in that way in a span of 24 hours, you can safely call him on that.
In your position, I'd tell him "Hey, look I'm really sorry, you left your hotmail open and I looked at some stuff. It was totally wrong of me. Oh, and by the way, we're through. Goodbye."
He isn't going to tell anyone what you did, because if he does, then you'll have to tell them what you found and why that resulted in a break-up.
It's not your job to stop him. You can’t even really, be that angry with him if there was no understand that your relationship was exclusive. In fact, nothing you can do or say likely too stop him. However, you can shame him pretty damn badly and label the behavior for what it is: low and scummy.
So tell him the truth. Tell him you caught him red-handed. Tell him that even though you did something wrong, that doesn't mean you have to be with a guy who would behave that way, and he should make himself scarce.
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