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hey
at my school my friends made up these nicknames that are guys names for all the girls in my class it was fun for a while until they dropped it but my nickname(timmy) stuck with me and i don't like it but they have gotten so used to calling me timmy one of them even forgot my real name!and because im a girl with a guys name apparently that makes me a he she. so now most people at my school who know me know me by the name of timmy. and no one would dance with me at the school dance we had on our overnight trip. well only one girl danced wwith another guy but still.what should i do.
plz help me
timmy494
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well first off, i wouldn't "sign" myself as this timmy.
do not write that name on anything, like a profile.
and when people call you timmy, say your real name- like in this scenario (corny haha):
"whats up timmy"
"its (beth). whats up"
or if thats too corny (sorry) just correct them with your girl name (:
hope i helped darling!
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First, the people sound a TAD immature. If they're calling you a he-she because your nickname is Timmy, that's just really lame. I know a lot of girls with guy nicknames, and it's really no problem for them.
However, if this nick name is really bothering you, when someone calls you Timmy, just tell them your real name! Either that, or just ask them "But do you know my REAL name?" It'll sound like a joke, but they'll probably get it. You could also start it by asking your close friends not to call you that. I'm sure they won't mind, just be straightforward and blunt about it. Say that you don't want to be called that anymore, and when people see your friends calling you by your real name, they'll begin to do the same.
Also, I'm not sure that someone wouldn't dance with you because of your nickname. If that IS the case, it's very shallow of them, so don't let it get to you!
XOXO
KAT.
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Next time someone calls you Timmy, say "No, my name is actually *insert your name here*. Not Timmy."
It'll start off slow but keep at it and soon Timmy will be erased forever.
cheers,
stargirl
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