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well this boy and i have had a "thing"(like crushes on eachother) for over a year. all our friends are friends with eachother, everything seems perfect. last year we were talking about making it offical but i hugged to many guys he says. but the crushes still remained. so we finally had a real date just the two of us. i finally admited i like him and he said he likes me too, but now its been about a month after the date and he NEVER calls or texts me EVER! i dont know what to do and i feel like im annoying if i try to callor text him. what should i do?
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First, I'd agree with the last person who answered. You should defintely talk to him about the 'hugging too many guys'. It seems like he's either a little immature or just very jealous. Hugging's a really innocent thing, and it shouldn't be a huge problem, as long as you're not ignoring him to go hug someone else or something. Just talk that over with him, let him know it was a mistake. It basically just sounds like you may have hurt him a little, and he wasn't sure how to look over it.
Did it actually go anywhere once you both admitted to liking each other? It's kind of weird that he wouldn't call or text after that, because he should be very excited! If you guys haven't made it official, he might just be nervous to talk to you, or could be waiting for you to make a move. If you DID make it official adn are dating now, you should both be talking to each other a lot more!
I'd go and say that he's either nervous or very busy, however. He could be thinking the same thing as you--"Why isn't she calling? Would I bother her if I called her?" Just know that it's definitely NOT annoying for you to call him. He's probably been waiting for you to. Remember, guys shouldn't always be expected to take the inititive to call first, and sometimes they have to be reassured that it's okay to do that. Just text and ask how he's doing or something. If you haven't talked for a month, it definitely wouldn't be excessive to check up on him, and see how he's doing or what's going on.
Also, if you stil like him, ask if he wants to hang out if he isn't busy! It sounds like things went really well on the last date, why not try again?
XOXO
KAT.
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okay well first i think you should talk to him about you hugging guys. any guy that gets jealous of you hugging your guy friends is being immature. tell him that when you do that its out of friendship and nothing more and there's no need to get jealous. if you're positive you both like each other i think you should just ask him out. start texting him again and see how he reacts, if all is going good then i say you should just ask him out, alot of guys like confidence in a girl and asking him out is a great way to show it =)
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