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Is it Wrong?
Is it wrong to want my boyfriend to lose his baseball tournament (best in the province tournament) because i want him to come to the beach with me? Mind you its been a while since we've hung out. But baseball is his passion, lol.
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I hope he breaks up with you. :(
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Haha, if you just mean kind of secretly wishing that they'd lose, it's something we all do, really. You're not doing it to be malicious, you just hope things work out so that you can see each other. As long as you're not pressuring him to make a choice or something, it's fine. No need to feel guilty, because you just want to spend some time with him.
Like you said, baseball is his passion, so make sure you don't make him feel guilty or anything about going, obviously. Maybe you could go to his game and hang out afterwards if the beach was an option/not mandatory? Just remember that it's a good opportunity for him to be going to the tournament, and I'm sure he'd love to spend time with you if he could.
For now, just cross your fingers (;
XOXO
KAT.
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everyone does that sometimes. Even if we care about someone we want to see them so bad that we don't care about their interests. It's totally understandable and you shouldn't feel guilty or anything, but I wouldn't suggest telling your boyfriend. If he wins the tournament just be really happy for him, and if he doesn't just pretend to be really sad for him. It's pretty much a win win situation, even if he doesn't go to the beach with you he'll be doing what he wants to do so just be a supportive girlfriend!
don't worry, we're humans, we're supposed to be selfish sometimes :)
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The only one who can answer that question is your boyfriend.
It's perfectly okay to wish it, and perfectly okay to ask him. Just be polite and understanding if his response is 'No way!'
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