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too far?
okay so i have a boyfriend. me and his best friend(eric) are really close and he likes me and i like him. my boyfriend is out of town. so me and eric are hanging out one night and we have an inside joke that at 11 each night we will have sexy time.last night we kinda had it. we were in his bed and we would take turns taking off clothes. he was in his boxers and i stole his shirt so i had everything but my bra on.he undid my bra. is this cheating?
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The answer that said it isn't cheating if he doesn't find out is pathetic.
Regardless of if you decide to tell him or not, it IS cheating and you shouldn't be doing it.
-Laura. (16-f)
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Its not cheating if he doesnt find out =] haha
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Would you want your boyfriend doing that with YOUR best friend if YOU were out of town? Exactly.
It's not fair to your boyfriend that you're taking your clothes off with his best friend. It's definitely not being faithful and if you want to stay with your boyfriend I'd stop what you're doing with Eric. You can't be with both of them.
-LM
[16/f]
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Well, maybe you weren't kissing or anything else, but whether it's cheating or not, does it really seem right? Cheating could have so many definitions, but in my opinion, it's doing things with other people that you SHOULD only be doing with your boyfriend/girlfriend. I mean, would you like to hear about him doing this with your best friend?
And even if you guys didn't physically do anything, if you were to continue some other time, where do you think it would go? Getting undressed obviously leads to things. It's pretty rare to hear about something getting undressed just innocently sitting there. And even if that were the case, how would it really sound to your boyfriend? Not too great at all.
My advice would be that, if you care about you boyfriend at all, you'll let him know what happened. It could complicate things quite a bit, but honesty is definitely the best policy here. You should be able to be up front with him, and it'd be better for him to hear about it from you, rather than his best friend/someone who heard about it otherwise. Also, I'd recommend to obviously stop 'sexy time', in person at least. Let his friend know that that was kind of wrong on both of your parts. Also, you might want to tell the best friend that he should talk to your boyfriend. If he dosen't have the guts to actually tell him what happened, it could lead to a fight or something of that nature.
It's only really fair to let your boyfriend know what happened.
However, if you feel like you don't want to be with your boyfriend anymore, let him know that. You said you liked his best friend, and the feeling was mutual? Do you plan on taking that anywhere, and would it be worth it for you to lose your boyfriend and for him to lose his best friend? Think about it, and talk things over with the best friend. It sounds like you guys might end up getting together eventually, so you need to be mutual about deciding what to do.
XOXO
KAT.
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Well, think of it this way.
If you was out of town, and your boyfriend and best girl friend was real close, and he was having "sexy time" with her, would you like it?
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yes dat cheating cuz u played him wit hiz best friend da luks bad
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