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Posted Monday October 13 2008, 9:27 am
I sit Right infront of the guy i like in skewl like he sits sideways and i sit straight so wer pretty much right next to eachtoher,., i rlly rly like this kid since last year, but i have a hard time talkin to him sometimes, like i do talk to him but not SOO much.
But we do talk
Can anyone please tell me how to talk to him more or gimie some tips,, not things like "so whats ur fav color" nah nothing like that,,i have my friends next to me and he has his friends next to him so i dont want myself to look like an idiot
can anyone like help me or tell me how i should approach him ..
anyhting would be helpful thanks a whole lot<3 :)
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what to do with AWKWARD PAUSES?????
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 2:38 am
F/17
okay.
so i like this guy that i only see in the halls. Im thinking of talking to him, but i know if i do its going to be extremely awkward and there will be long pauses where im just standing there with nothing to say?
This is probably how it will go::
*during lunch*
-Me: Hi, (introduces myself)
-Him: Uh....(introduces himself)
-Me: So..bla bla bla...
-Him: *looks bored, annoyed, or like he needs to go some where*
-Me: Uhh...*awkward pause, and i really dont want to let him go*
So, does anyone have any tips as to what i can say or do to have him be ...
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Love or Lust??????
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 1:21 am
I'm male, single(never had a girlfriend before!), and 22! I speak English though I'm not from the US. We are a Catholic nation.
I have this officemate/friend of mine whom i am attracted to. She's pretty, witty, friendly, and kind. But it bothers me if i really like her for who she is because i find her noisy and sometimes i think i can't relate to her(she's full of positivity and jolliness while i am more of a serious- and silent-type of person).
However, i can't stop thinking of her. And it bothers me that when i think of her, its always about sex. It makes me wonder if i really like her or i just think of her as a sex object.
And yet, we are catholics; and she is a very devoted one. Thus, if i ...
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ugh guys!
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 10:18 pm
WARNING:long sorry just wanted to give full story or most of it
ok so im pretty much 14(my bday nov 9)
im not attracted to guys around my age i dont knw i just think older guys are cute and are more mature.well there are these three guys one well call d he is 18 or 19 and the other well call is x but i dont knw how old he is and lastly well call him j and he is 16 or 17.at first me and d werent like friends like we hugged and said hi but ya knw.he just kinda messed with me like put his arm around me and sang to me cause he knew i liked him haha just who he is.well now he flirts with me and kissed me on the cheek twice and he knws my name and one day my friend was like why do you kiss b and he was like have i ever kissed you an...
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should i just let it go ? :S
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 10:08 pm
me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago, but i said i still loved him and he said the same . And it might sound lame, but we both had a feeling that it was going to be okay . And we should break up because it would be better for both of us for now because we go to different highschools and stuff . I have a feeeling that he's not lying, and it is going to be okay, because everytime i think, i'm just going to forget about him and i want it to be over with, something little happens right after that will completely change my mimd . like i'll randomly get a text from him ?
but supposedly now, he likes this other girl that goes to his school, and he got mad at his friend for telling me ?
what should i do, im not going to say ...
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boyfriennnd
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 7:29 pm
So this is pathetic, I'm 17/F.
I just cannot find the right guy, or a guy at all. I have only a few guy friends, and I'm not even "close" with them anyways.
But I've never been in a real relationship ever, and I dont know whats wrong with me, I'm super out going, I talk to about anyone, I'm not shy... I meet tons of people, but none ever turn out to be more than friendship.
Arghh!
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my mom
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 6:38 pm
me and this guy lets just call him jj are now dating and she found a hickie and she flipped at me... she says im to young and im not!!!!!!! i really like him and hes not taking advantage of me i gave him one too.... but my mom doesnt really like him and she doesnt want me to get another hickie but i love it when he does that stuff to me what shoud i do?i really like jj!!
help
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Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 3:28 pm
i am 16 female and think i have found the right person to loose my virginity to but i am quite scared about it! Could you possible do it wrong or what if it hurts ect? The guy is a virgin aswell but seems to know exsactly what he is doing? are there any tips or anything please?
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Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 3:03 pm
im 18 and my boyfriend lives in a different state. he always come to visit me. my last class is on wednesday (im in college)
i want to visit him this weekend and im taking the bus bc my car cant make it up there (its old)
i need a very good reason to leave my house for 4 days to tell my parents any ideas? they dont allow me or my sister (22) to have bfs. they are just strict so any GOOD ideas.
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First heartbreakk .
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 2:47 pm
Im 15. This summer I got my heartbroken . My first love of a year and 3 months broke up with me on June 1st , It's been the longest 4 months of my life! I miss him dearly and I have no clue how to get over him , it is probley the most confusing time in my life iv ever had . Im so weak when it comes to him and he KN0WS it! I would do anything to have him back in my life , I may be young but im very mature for my age. He was my everything and for it to go away all in one day is crazy for me . We know we still love each other and always will have somthing special there for each other. Im trying to move on , but I just can't . Everytime he wants to hang out I KNOW what's gonna happen , were gonna end up kissing and everything but it's like I ca...
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he;s older....
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 2:00 pm
13/f
please just read and dont judge...
there is this guy, my neighbor, and well, he is REALLY hot. like, sexy hot. and my window faces his and i catch him looking at me sometimes. he's 17 (almost 18) and im 13. sometimes i purposely get dressed in front of my window, just so he can see a little skin. but, is that wrong? i actually have gotten to know him, and he is a really nice guy. so sometimes, he'll text me goodnight and tell me my pjs are really cute because he saw them through my window. so its not like im just falling for some guy i dont even know. but could i have a chance with him? when i walk home with his brother from school, sometimes i see him and he'll wink at me. am i crazy? because he is really cute and really...
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we have everything in common?
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 1:46 pm
13/f
okay, so there is this guy, i just met him a couple weeks ago. and he goes to my new school (just moved). he's REALLY sweet and is soo nice. and we have a lot of things in common. maybe like 3 things so far that are different about us. we can usually relate to each other. So we became friends, and lately i started to like him. like, really like him. i thought opposites attracted? because we're like the same person in different bodies and we attract pretty well. but he said he liked me too when i told him, that was the other night. and i was happy to get if off my chest, but things have been a little off balance with us since then. well, not yesterday, but we werent meshing well today.
but i really really like him,...
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Do you think there's a chance he likes me?
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 12:55 pm
I'm in band, and so is the guy I like; we're in the same section and we're both section leaders so we are around each other a lot. He jokes around a lot with me, and he talks to me a lot. But I don't know if he is interested. He has my number but we don't talk much, we text on occasion, only really if it's about something important. It's hard to tell because he's really outgoing around his friends but I think he might be shy around girls. He's never had a girlfriend, but he's still pretty cute. How would I be able to tell if he likes me back?
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Dating ex's friends?
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 12:44 pm
There's a guy that I've liked for awhile... ever since like 7th grade actually, and I'm a junior now. Well, since we've been in high school, he and I have gotten closer, mostly because we're in the same group of friends now because his friend asked me out last year but we broke up after three months (it was a happy ending though :)) So I'm curious, would it be a bad thing for me to try and start something with the guy I like because he's so close with my ex?
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he is making me so confused!!!!!
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 12:21 pm
k...... so, 1 of my friends asked this guy out 4 me, and he said, "i dont know" so then, a week later, my other friend asked him, and he said, "i dont know, maybe"
so, i looked maybe up in the dictionary, and it said possibly. i looked up possibly, and it said presicely, yes or no.
i asked his sister the next day, and she said that she thought it meant yes...... and i dont know what 2 do about this........
i wrote him a note that said, ""will you go out with me? circle, yes or no."" im giving it 2 him in 2 days.. is that a bad idea??? --HELP ME PLZ!!!!!--
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Excuse to keep relationship on the DL
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 11:39 am
To make a long story short: I've been going back and forth with this guy who REALLY likes me because I can't seem to decide if I like him. I told him I didn't - but then the second he started getting over me I felt heartbroken, cried, was crazy jealous over any girl he talked to, and then kissed him to make him like me again.
It sounds manipulative, like I don't like him but don't want him to get over me.. but I think I do like him. Quite a lot actually.
Now he asked me to decide wether I want to be with him, because he needs to know..
Is there a good excuse that would allow us to be in a secret relationship, so we could sneak around (which is something I really enjoy haha) and keep it on the do...
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Life in general? Confused!
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 10:00 am
i put this under Love Life bcos it was the closest to what i'm asking about!! Basically i'm just really confused with my life right now...i'm only 18 but i'm thinking ahead and worrying about how my life is going to go!! I'm out with my friends most days yet I still feel it's not enough- like i'm not getting enough out of life,!i have never felt like this before and it's really confusing me!! but i have been like this for a couple of months now. i've even started to think about my ex (who I split up with in April, and i don't even like him anymore!) idk i was just wondering if anyone else felt like this? and what can i do to take my mind off it?
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adopted love/brother/sister
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 12:11 am
this isnt me, im just wondering, so if you were adopted and you adopted parents adopt another guy, and is it wrong to marry and love him? and he lvoes you back? i mean we're both adopted! (not me) just wondering
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Ughh.. Guys :/
Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 12:09 am
What are you seriously going to do with them? I mean, they say one thing, but do the other.
Anyways, I suppose I should start from the beginning. My names Megan, and I've been completely Anti-love for the past few months, due to the final realization that it's not really something I'm good at. I have problems staying interested in one guy, and it drives me competely nuts. And when I actually care, they don't.
So for the past few weeks I've been having all these mixed feelings about this one guy. He's a real sweety. But sometimes I think he's just saying all these cute corny lines just because he can, not because he means it. It drives me nuts, although I should just trust him and believe that he does care. But...
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I really like this guy...but...
Posted Saturday October 11 2008, 11:55 pm
16/f
I have this huge crush on this one guy and I don't know what to do about it. People tell me that they think he likes me, but I don't really know for sure. He doesn't go to my school, but we talk online and stuff almost everyday. How can I hint to him that I like him more than a friend? Would asking him to go a movie be too forward of me? Or should i wait for him to ask me? I'm not sure of what i should do.
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