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First heartbreakk .
Im 15. This summer I got my heartbroken . My first love of a year and 3 months broke up with me on June 1st , It's been the longest 4 months of my life! I miss him dearly and I have no clue how to get over him , it is probley the most confusing time in my life iv ever had . Im so weak when it comes to him and he KN0WS it! I would do anything to have him back in my life , I may be young but im very mature for my age. He was my everything and for it to go away all in one day is crazy for me . We know we still love each other and always will have somthing special there for each other. Im trying to move on , but I just can't . Everytime he wants to hang out I KNOW what's gonna happen , were gonna end up kissing and everything but it's like I can't say no to him ... I love him so much and it's like " so what If I can't be with you , im with you at this moment " ... Idk what to do , iv tried EVERYTHiNG!!
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You have to remember that even though you feel like you'd give everything for him, he broke up with you. You have to accept that he is a bit more careless with it. The fact that he KNOWS that you are weak when it comes to him gives him the advantage, so to him you are weaker. Love yourself, and remember that you don't NEED him- treat him as a luxury; he'd be nice to have around but you do not need him around. Don't try desperately to get over him- that makes it harder. Accept what happened and let it take its time.
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Well sweetie if this is how he is, when you guys hang out. Its like your really not broken up which is why its making him so hard to get over. Everytime you guys hang out its like all those feelings rush back and just adds to the confusion your dealing with. It cant be both ways, either you are friends and knock of the making out, or your back together. You need to have a heart to heart with him and tell him you cant continue to be this way with him because its tearing you up inside. Either you remain friends and nothing else so you can move on. Or you guys both try again and see where things go. This is not fair to you at all. Your going to have to be strong and confront him. So next time you guys are alone and he trys to make out with you, just say hey I cant do this anymore, unless we are together again. If he tells you he does not want that, your going to have to be strong and tell him then making out stops, because it not fair to you and its to hard emotionally to handle. Tell him you still have feelings for him, and he needs to stop sending you mixed messages. Your either with me or your not. Be straight up with him about it. I know its not easy, but you have to be strong and back this up with not only words but your actions. Make things totally clear to him, dont give in. Once he gets the message he cant have everything his way, he will have a choice to make. To be with you, or just be friends. I hope this helps, please let me know how things are going... Drop me a line anytime in my inbox to keep me updated..
Take a deep breath and always remember to take it onedayatatime
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