Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


Ughh.. Guys :/


Question Posted Sunday October 12 2008, 12:09 am

What are you seriously going to do with them? I mean, they say one thing, but do the other.

Anyways, I suppose I should start from the beginning. My names Megan, and I've been completely Anti-love for the past few months, due to the final realization that it's not really something I'm good at. I have problems staying interested in one guy, and it drives me competely nuts. And when I actually care, they don't.

So for the past few weeks I've been having all these mixed feelings about this one guy. He's a real sweety. But sometimes I think he's just saying all these cute corny lines just because he can, not because he means it. It drives me nuts, although I should just trust him and believe that he does care. But I don't know.. I just opened up my heart again, after I thought I couldn't care again.

Should I give him a try..? Or what? x-x


[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


shelbz7077 answered Sunday October 12 2008, 8:36 pm:
Okay well does he act the same in front of his guy friends? How has he treated other girls in the past? These are a few things you really need to consider. I mean if you have a lot of doubts about his love maybe you should wait until someone better comes along that you know will love you and treat you nice. I hope this helps you.

[ shelbz7077's advice column | Ask shelbz7077 A Question
]




Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Sunday October 12 2008, 3:00 pm:
it doesn't hurt to give it try but if your looking for love auch as i was i gave up. i mean i talked to guys and wanted to love them but it didnt feel right. and than i meet this guy and its like we have a connection we can be our selfs around each other and everything hes perfect. you will know when you find love it will just hit you.

[ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question
]



HeartedASHollow answered Sunday October 12 2008, 1:35 pm:
You have to analyze all of what he has said and see if it outweighs the actions he has done for you. On top of that, you need to know how he is when reacting with everyone else. Such as "has he ever pulled a love-prank on a girl because he could" or "How is his relationship life?"

I know how you feel because I'm an anti-love person but for the past 3 months, I've felt differently. I like a guy right now but I know I shouldn't because he is being shipped out to boot camp for military training for the Marines in about 2-3 months. I know it would be nothin but painful but sometimes you really have to try so you can say you believed.


I hope this helps and you find what you're looking for.

-KD/f/16

[ HeartedASHollow's advice column | Ask HeartedASHollow A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: Majors problem..
Next Question >>> adopted love/brother/sister

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker