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Dating ex's friends?
There's a guy that I've liked for awhile... ever since like 7th grade actually, and I'm a junior now. Well, since we've been in high school, he and I have gotten closer, mostly because we're in the same group of friends now because his friend asked me out last year but we broke up after three months (it was a happy ending though :)) So I'm curious, would it be a bad thing for me to try and start something with the guy I like because he's so close with my ex?
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This same thing happend with a friend of minez, but it wasnt her ex's friend it was his cousin! And he seemed to not have a problem with it. So if you feel absolutely confident with going with him, then go for it.
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if you and your ex are good friends i dont see a problem with it. why dont you ask your ex if hed mind or anything? other wise i would say go for it.
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If you're good friends with your ex and there are honestly no feelings left, I don't think it should be a problem. Perhaps you'll need to talk to him about it either before dating his friend, or maybe just to clarify things once the two of you are already together if he seems to be acting strange. He really doesn't have much of a right to be upset about it though, unless there are still feelings.
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i don't think it's really that big of a deal. you're young and friends end up going out with the same boy/girl. you said it was a happy ending though so that helps a lot too. if it was a bad ending then he might get mad at his friend. i think you should be okay going for the guy you like now :) but if your ex seems to be getting pissed at the guy you like you might want to lay off for a little longer.
good luckk
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