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he is making me so confused!!!!!
k...... so, 1 of my friends asked this guy out 4 me, and he said, "i dont know" so then, a week later, my other friend asked him, and he said, "i dont know, maybe"
so, i looked maybe up in the dictionary, and it said possibly. i looked up possibly, and it said presicely, yes or no.
i asked his sister the next day, and she said that she thought it meant yes...... and i dont know what 2 do about this........
i wrote him a note that said, ""will you go out with me? circle, yes or no."" im giving it 2 him in 2 days.. is that a bad idea??? --HELP ME PLZ!!!!!--
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The reason he hasn't been saying yes is because he probably thinks you aren't really serious about dating him. This might be because you are asking him out through other ppl. Well asking him in a note would be a horrible idea. He will definetly think that you aren't serious. Ask him in person or don't ask at all. If you are worried about asking him out heres a tip.
don't just say "Will you go out with me?" ask him out specifically like "Hey do you want to catch a movie with me?" or something like that. Also to clear the air, in your situation I would start off with something like this
"Hi ______. Look I am sorry I have been asking you out through my friend, that was wrong. So here I am and I would like to know if you wanted to hang out this weekend?"
Thats all i got
~Katwashala
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Hands Down Honestly ITS A BAD IDEA! After having two other people ask for you, that should already be enough, writing the note would make you sound desperate and obsessed. Just wait for him to get back to you his self.
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First of all, you should have asked him yourself in the first place.
Asking him through two other people then yourself will sound a bit desperate. The words 'maybe' and 'possibly' show that he is unsure of whether or not he is into you, and if he is he'll go for you himself.
Handing him the note is just like having the friends ask him. He wants to see your confidence. He's not going to want to be with somebody who can't even talk to him.
You should wait a little while then confront him in person. :)
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I think you should just ask him in person. Guys like confidence, so if you do it yourself, then he might see that you were confident enough to go up to him and ask him out.
I think having your friends ask him out was a not-so-good idea. I think the note is an okay idea, but I think your best bet is asking him out yourself.
I don't know for sure, but I think the odds of him returning the note is slim. Why? Because he may find it kind of weird/awkward to give it to you and he may not even remember to give it back.
Just relax and worse comes to worse, he doesn't return it and you just ask him out in person :]
Hope this helps!
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i wouldn't give him the note.
I would ask him face to face and if he says I don't know, he may be letting you down nicely.
If he says maybe, he's just thinking on his decision.
So next time just ask him, "Do you like me, Honestly yes or no? I don't want to be wasting my time."
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