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what to do with AWKWARD PAUSES?????


Question Posted Monday October 13 2008, 2:38 am

F/17

okay.
so i like this guy that i only see in the halls. Im thinking of talking to him, but i know if i do its going to be extremely awkward and there will be long pauses where im just standing there with nothing to say?



This is probably how it will go::
*during lunch*

-Me: Hi, (introduces myself)

-Him: Uh....(introduces himself)

-Me: So..bla bla bla...

-Him: *looks bored, annoyed, or like he needs to go some where*

-Me: Uhh...*awkward pause, and i really dont want to let him go*






So, does anyone have any tips as to what i can say or do to have him be interested in me? Hes really shy, hes usually alone when i see him, he's a senior and we dont know each other what so ever. I really want to get to know him because he seems like someone I could really connect with. Weird, I know, but I just have that feeling. So im asking for some really good advice.

Please! :]
Thanks in advance.


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TaylorxAnn answered Monday October 13 2008, 10:56 pm:
okay sweetie first of all you have no cofidence in yourself yes you may think you know how it will go but how do you know he can't be thinking of talking to you too but just has'nt cause he feels the same wayy.. you don't just need to keep a conversation tell him your name and that you wanted to interdouce yourself becuase you notticed him and then see where it goes.

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katwashala answered Monday October 13 2008, 9:55 pm:
Easy...be as random as humanly possible. A lot of boys find randomness cute in a girl, so bring up something totally off topic like "Wow you have large feet, what size do you wear?" or something like that to make him laugh. Be random and act cute. That's my advice.
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