me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago, but i said i still loved him and he said the same . And it might sound lame, but we both had a feeling that it was going to be okay . And we should break up because it would be better for both of us for now because we go to different highschools and stuff . I have a feeeling that he's not lying, and it is going to be okay, because everytime i think, i'm just going to forget about him and i want it to be over with, something little happens right after that will completely change my mimd . like i'll randomly get a text from him ?
but supposedly now, he likes this other girl that goes to his school, and he got mad at his friend for telling me ?
what should i do, im not going to say i know what love is and stuff for sure, because im only 15 ,but this is such a weird feeling and theres this feeling i get to keep trying ?
should i just let it go, and stop trying to text him etc . and see if it's is actually ment, on its own ?
should i keep on trying ?
or should i forget about it all together , and see what happens from there ? :S
any other suggestions would be great alsoo,
thanks (: (L) !
First of all, I've been in a very similar situation. We were the same age as you-and for some reason we fell into love.
I think that because you guys were able to separate for practical reasons even though you still loved each other shows that you have something real. If you both feel that it will work out in the end and be okay-maybe you should trust your instincts..especially if you agree on them.
If he likes another girl, he likes another girl. I say let it run it's course and whatever happens happens. Cool down for a bit, delete him from your contacts, and BE separated if that is what you two chose to do. Take time to reflect, take yoga classes, and most importantly-write down what you're feeling- especially because you feel like you change your mind about him a lot.
Maybe after a few months, you can feel more solidly about your relationship with him, and talk to him about it.
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