Well I am not straight and I know it.
I love girls, they are georgeous and ahhhh
But, I have the most amazing boyfriend!
I love him, I mean I couldn't live without him...and I know its for a companion and not just a friendshipppp!
Therefore, I think I am bi...
I mean seriouslyyy, I love boys, they attract me and get me excited, welll....girls do to!:D
The question is how do I come out to my boyfriend and my familyyyy...
I have a game with my friends who are girls where we grab each others butts and boobs, trying to make each other uncomfortableeee...
And I am a little bit weary because I don't want them to think I am copping a feel. I am NOT doing thattt...honestly, my friends aren't my type, I don't think they are attractive AT ALL. Ew.
But that doesn't matter, what should I do?
(oh by the way, my boyfriend is a very commited christian who thinks that homosexuality is wrong and disgustinggg)
tell your friends what you just told everyone here. If you really are not attracted to them, let them know-and how hard would it be to just not play that game anymore? that way they wouldn't be made to feel uncomfortable.
No one can tell you how to come out to your family-it's a personal choice..both to tell them and how you do it..but just do it in a neutral environment- I can't imagine them not being understanding and loving-they are your family..
In your boyfriend's case- to have a healthy relationship you have to be honest..and this is a big secret to keep. Now it is your choice whether or not to tell him- but it sounds like you want to come out. If he doesn't understand or thinks it's immoral because of his religious beliefs, there is nothing you can do about that. You guys might break up because of it-but if you do..think about it- how much of a loss is it? I know he's your boyfriend and you obviously care about him..but it's a choice between having a boyfriend who doesn't know the true you and may not accept it-and being yourself.
It all depends on what you want to be.
I hope this helped =]
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but our school doesn't have anything like that a school nurse or a pschycologist or anything like that i'm in grade 7 my school goes from JK-grade8. Thought i should just tell you this.
every school has to have a school psychologist, if youre in ny state. they may not be there every day- they may only come in when needed..but theyre required to have one. If you dont have one- is there a different high school building you have? because they would definitely have one.
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Hey my username is timmy494 and my best friend lets call her bob (thats not her real name). She was a late joiner to PACE (a girted academic program). Basically she came in grade 6 instead of grade 5. In grade 5 the guys in our class teased us all about almost everything. Now in grade seven they moved on with that but they tease Bob still becaus she was a late jopiner some of the reasons why they tease her are because
-she had a unibrow(she got her grandma to wax it because she thought it would stop the teasing)
-ect. ect theres a million more reasons.
One day i found this out when my other friend told me that Bob was sitting on her roof thinking about jumping off. When my other friend called her and my firned Bob was flat out sobbing about how she cut herself and she made a couple little cuts and 1 REALLY deep cut so she came to school the next day and was wearing a long sleeve so only her and my friend knew. But the shirt was a little short and durinbg DPA her sleeve went a ;littlw up and we all saw her cute.Of course the guys in my class picked the p[erfect time and started calling her names like Emo and Emu and Emobird and Wombat child(dont ask) now everyone knows her secret but we are making an effort to help her get better and we told our parents and our moms talked to rachels mom who had no idea. but checked her daughters wrist and sure enough there were the cuts. So now her parents know but she is still trying to sneak blades into her room.What should we do?
I think you and your friend did the right thing, and by letting her parents know and letting her know you are there for her-you did your duty. You can't really help her anymore..if her parents know it is in their hands to seek professional help..
Maybe you could go tell your guidance counselor about it-so they can get her in to see the school nurse or school psychologist.
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My boyfriend has a bad habit of always being on his iPhone. While out to dinner with friends, watching a movie, pretty much every where. I try to get him off of it and after I say something he will, but 30 mins later he'll get back on. What should I do? It gets pretty annoying him always playing with his iPhone :-\
Tell him how much it bothers you, and that you feel like it's rude. If he doesn't respond to that-tell him to choose between his iphone and sex. You'll see the problem disappear veryyy quickly. =]
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So this is pathetic, I'm 17/F.
I just cannot find the right guy, or a guy at all. I have only a few guy friends, and I'm not even "close" with them anyways.
But I've never been in a real relationship ever, and I dont know whats wrong with me, I'm super out going, I talk to about anyone, I'm not shy... I meet tons of people, but none ever turn out to be more than friendship.
Arghh!
First of all-this isn't pathetic at all.
With these things you really need to be patient. I know that's hard to hear-but every time that I have felt like there's no one out there, I end up telling myself to forget about it- and guess what. As soon as I do someone just walks into my life.
join a book club in your city, a volunteer group, or a gym. Those are all usually good places to meet new people- that are nice and intelligent =]
good luck!
em
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when i give my boyfriend a handjob nothing happens he doesnt cum his face is just straight he even asked me what am i trying to do .he only enjoyed it onces when i was sucking on his neck and giving him a handjob at the same time.his 20 and im 18 by the way .
your boyfriend needs to tell you what he wants. he can't expect you to know automatically what turns him on, and it doesn't seem like he appreciates that you're trying.
talk to him and tell him that you need to keep communication open, and if you can't talk about sex with him-it may show that your communication in other areas needs work.
ask him what his needs are, what his wants are, and how you can better understand them to improve your sex life.
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me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago, but i said i still loved him and he said the same . And it might sound lame, but we both had a feeling that it was going to be okay . And we should break up because it would be better for both of us for now because we go to different highschools and stuff . I have a feeeling that he's not lying, and it is going to be okay, because everytime i think, i'm just going to forget about him and i want it to be over with, something little happens right after that will completely change my mimd . like i'll randomly get a text from him ?
but supposedly now, he likes this other girl that goes to his school, and he got mad at his friend for telling me ?
what should i do, im not going to say i know what love is and stuff for sure, because im only 15 ,but this is such a weird feeling and theres this feeling i get to keep trying ?
should i just let it go, and stop trying to text him etc . and see if it's is actually ment, on its own ?
should i keep on trying ?
or should i forget about it all together , and see what happens from there ? :S
any other suggestions would be great alsoo,
thanks (: (L) !
L,
First of all, I've been in a very similar situation. We were the same age as you-and for some reason we fell into love.
I think that because you guys were able to separate for practical reasons even though you still loved each other shows that you have something real. If you both feel that it will work out in the end and be okay-maybe you should trust your instincts..especially if you agree on them.
If he likes another girl, he likes another girl. I say let it run it's course and whatever happens happens. Cool down for a bit, delete him from your contacts, and BE separated if that is what you two chose to do. Take time to reflect, take yoga classes, and most importantly-write down what you're feeling- especially because you feel like you change your mind about him a lot.
Maybe after a few months, you can feel more solidly about your relationship with him, and talk to him about it.
Good luck!
emma
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