when i give my boyfriend a handjob nothing happens he doesnt cum his face is just straight he even asked me what am i trying to do .he only enjoyed it onces when i was sucking on his neck and giving him a handjob at the same time.his 20 and im 18 by the way .
talk to him and tell him that you need to keep communication open, and if you can't talk about sex with him-it may show that your communication in other areas needs work.
solidadvice4teens answered Sunday October 12 2008, 12:45 am: Your boyfriend isn't being all that nice about this. He's forgotten that as a male he understands what is pleasurable for him. He also is the expert on his penis and the male reproductive system. You're a female and have different reproductive organs. How can you be expected to know what his responds to?
He hasn't told you what he finds pleasurable or given you any guidance. You need to remind him that you're a girl and he's a guy and that unless he tells you what he finds pleasurable nothing will change. Talk to him.
That's all you need to do and be direct with the explanation I listed above. And above all don't feel bad as you tried with no knowledge about this to please him. He's being a jerk about it anyway as you don't owe him anything. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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