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we have everything in common?
13/f
okay, so there is this guy, i just met him a couple weeks ago. and he goes to my new school (just moved). he's REALLY sweet and is soo nice. and we have a lot of things in common. maybe like 3 things so far that are different about us. we can usually relate to each other. So we became friends, and lately i started to like him. like, really like him. i thought opposites attracted? because we're like the same person in different bodies and we attract pretty well. but he said he liked me too when i told him, that was the other night. and i was happy to get if off my chest, but things have been a little off balance with us since then. well, not yesterday, but we werent meshing well today.
but i really really like him, and i think he really likes me too, but how do i move it along?
sorry this was long!
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If you want to move things along, it's quite simple ! I think the easiest way to have some time with him when you're not in school is either invite 3 or 4 people (including him) to your house on a weekend or have a nice, small group of 3 or 4 and go to the movies. It'll be fun, but I think you'd be better off if you invited a few people over your house so you can talk to him more, unless, ofcourse, you go to the movies a bit early so you can talk during the commercials !
Hope this helped !
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Talk with him about it. It sounds like you've got something good going for you. If you both like each other, this should be fairly easy if you play your cards right.
My biggest suggestion would be to ask him if he could ever see you two as a couple. I know its really nerve racking and everybody likes to avoid these types of situations, but trust me: it'll be fine. You need to find out how he feels about you and if hes willing to take it to the next level. It might be a little awkward or embarrasing to have to confront him like that, but it could turn into something thats gonna make you really happy so its worth it. You dont want to pass something like this up, because you might regret it if he gets a girlfriend or something happens to change the situation. Get it all out on the table. Im sure everything will work out.
Good Luck :]
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